So, what kind of female passions do men consider to be flaws? The male author reveals all the secrets of the incompatibility of male and female psychology.
So, if a woman ...
1. Poor cooking
The man, in fact, not gourmet, so I'm ready to eat the cooking, which he prepares an unskillful wife. Moreover, the phrase "the way to the heart of a man lies through his stomach" is openly out of date in our time, when in any supermarket you can buy ready-made meals. In addition, modern men and do at least as good as women.
The only thing that must be taken into account is a potential wife: if you do not know how to cook, it's better to compensate for this shortcoming.
After all, in fact, you are unlikely to be happy with a husband who does not know how to do at home what is called a male job, no matter how good he is. Another thing is, if he earns more than enough to make this work done by someone else.
2. Spends one day all salary
Just note - if this does not happen all the time or if the family has enough money, it can be forgiven.
On the one hand, to the squanderer woman there is less respect from men (and more envy from other women), but on the other - this character trait provides in some way "compensation" to a loved one.
Amount of this compensation depends on the degree of extravagance, strange as it may sound.
After all, no matter how self-sufficient the woman is if she does not know how to rationally allocate or plan her budget, but only requires money from the man and does not give anything in return - sooner or later such relations will end .
So if you do not know how to spend money wisely, then at least with the mind behave in other areas of life.
3. Watch the series for hours and chat on the phone
A man can quite forgive his beloved, if most of the evening it will not be given to him, but to a friend or TV.
In the end, he needs less attention than the fair sex. At this time, he is happy to sit at the computer or newspaper. Finally, he goes to play with his friends in the pool while you are busy with your own affairs.
So, since if the wife has a similar hobby, it would not be superfluous to solve something similar to his second half .
But if your lady is absorbed in soap operas and girlfriends so much that she does not notice how you came back from work, what you ate and whether you are at home at all, then alas: most likely not the most pleasant surprises await you.
4. I go to visit for a long time
Yes, very often it's annoying. Especially at first, or when you are already late, and the wife of the broken hour can not determine which blouse she should wear.
But eventually you get used to this line, it even starts to like. Judge for yourself: where else can a husband see such an elegant display of models from his wife ?
I know that the number of men reading "Women's Passion" is not less than the number of women, so in this case the advice to them. Tell your wife that you need to be visiting, for example, not at 19.00, but an hour earlier. It is this reserve of time and will go to her preening.
5. Likes diets, which "puts" the whole family
Even if such a "dictatorship" is so strong that a husband can not skip a couple of cutlets around the table, nothing prevents him from eating plenty at work .
In addition, if you look at this approach of the wife on the other hand, then you can find great health benefits: any nutritionist will tell you that a light breakfast and dinner is just wonderful .
If the wife herself sits on diets and keeps an excellent figure, then again this is an absolute plus. If only she was comfortable, and the children, of course, did not experience any damage.
6. Inept mistress
Of course, if the husband comes home and you "cheer him up", that accidentally broke his school cup or washed his favorite T-shirt when washing, he will not be delighted, but he will be angry for a long time too.
The main thing is to apologize, while making an innocent face . And, of course, to say: dear, tomorrow we'll buy you a t-shirt much better, and for the cup I'll rehabilitate myself at night under the full program.
Women also have this feature - to put things on their husband when he is not at home.
When the husband, looking for a job in a hurry in the morning, discovers that they all smell of women's perfume, and T-shirts, moreover, in spangles, he will certainly not like this, but his pride will burn. If a wife wears his things, then she loves, she likes his smell .
The only advice is try to still leave some of his things untouched. At work, it is necessary to walk in something!
Some women hate cleaning. Well, even these loving men forgive their chosen ones. In the end, when a couple lives together, then cleaning can be translated into the category of common affairs.
In addition, many men are able to just perfectly clean, besides do it with greater responsibility and thoroughness! So not using our talents in this area of living together is just a sin.
7. Sometimes it's stupid
Of course, a stupid wife does not like any man. Especially if she regularly puts him in an awkward position by inappropriate actions or words.
It's good that this happens without witnesses. And if in public? However, if stupidity is rare or the wife simply does not orient herself in certain generally accessible spheres, then this is quite tolerable .
There is nothing to worry about if you run into a stupor in foreign cities, did not read any books on science fiction, you can not show Europe on the world map or you do not know the rules of any sports game.
However, at the same time you should at least or well cook, or know some tricks in bed. Such they are, our manners.
8. Tells all about girlfriends
In fact, to hear from her hairdresser the question "Well, how is your baldness, stopped?" - not the most pleasant thing for a man.
Women, of course, can not live without sharing their girlfriends with what worries them, but ...
Here an important moment, what exactly do you tell .
If you talk about gifts that are constantly given to you by a husband, his care and love - this is one thing, and quite another - about how a husband is bad in bed and that a 10-year-old boy has a genital organ more than your faithful.
But in general, even if the husband knows that the girlfriend is aware of his family life in all its manifestations, this is unlikely to be the reason for some radical measures on his part.
Here the principle works: if everything is good for you, then let them envy, and if it's bad, then it will not be worse from that .
You, of course, can say that all this is nonsense, and if a man loves, everything will endure, but you will be wrong. I will not give you unnecessary arguments, just ask yourself: would you and your husband live, who have a lot of shortcomings, but have the advantages - once or twice and obchelsya?
Jaroslav KOLOMYTS
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