Useful tips for educating men

Dear women, we perfectly know how difficult it is to cope with domestic chores alone! The more offensive, when your beloved at the time, as we mine, we clean and clean calmly lying on the couch and watching football. Do not think that life is only the sphere of your duties. Do not turn yourself into an obliging servant. We must understand that family life must be common. You arrange your family nest, make it comfortable, clean and cozy, let the man, too, takes any part in this. A man can be taught to help you. Let it not happen at once, but gradually, over and over again using the proposed advice, you will raise an excellent assistant from your husband. And especially clever women make this transformation so imperceptible that a man does not even catch it!

So, remember useful tips for educating a man.

- Home affairs are completely uninteresting for a man. Therefore, to force him to do this or that task, make your request as short and accessible as possible for a man's understanding: "take out the garbage, he stands at the door" or "here's a vacuum cleaner. Vacuum the room. " With such requests, there should be no omissions. It is necessary to know that many men do not really know how to do this or that. This makes them difficult, and therefore discourages you from helping you. Teach a man how to wipe the dust properly, how to properly water flowers, etc.

"Ask to do no more than one thing at a time." Especially at the beginning of "upbringing." A man seldom remembers more than one task at home. When he can handle your assignment, thank him, let him rest, then you can ask for something to be done again.

- If a man does something about the house, do not stand over his soul, do not criticize his work, do not teach him. Men hate criticism, this can lead to the fact that he refuses to do anything at all. Better explain what kind of result you expect from him, and do other things. Be sure to appreciate the work of a man, even if he did not do everything right, he deserves praise.

"Helplessness can be shown to achieve help." "How to use this new vacuum cleaner? Honey, I will not deal with you. " Men are proud of themselves and they like to feel important, intelligent, able to do everything. More often remind the man of his virtues, tell him how difficult and bleak your life would be without him.

- If you want to somehow diversify boring household chores, play a little. Take the box, write on the pieces of paper a to-do list (with humor) and drop the leaves into a box. Alternately, with her husband, pull out the leaves. So you can have fun distributing tasks during the cleaning on a day off.

- Use the distribution of responsibilities: today you are walking with a dog, tomorrow I am. The secret of this method is that it is not necessary to force a man to do what he hates. For example, if he hates to wash dishes, wash it yourself. Let the man do the work he is capable of, which does not irritate him, so you will get more help from him.

- Praise him for everything he did. He cleaned up his desk? Prepare him something delicious. Did he take out the garbage? Kiss it hard and hard. A man must see and feel your gratitude for his work.

- Do not overload the man with household chores. It is important to teach him to help you with cleaning, take out the trash, clean up your socks, but do not force a man to do everything. After all, he, first and foremost, the breadwinner, and the keeper of the home - you. Do not change places that are inherent in nature.

If you apply these tips, very soon the man will get used to his "small" duties in the house. Some men, knowing what a stormy nightly gratitude awaits them after their help, begin offering their services themselves. And what could be better than a beloved husband who is ready to help you in everything?