Often you can hear grandmothers on the benches complain: "What is now in time - to get acquainted have not yet had time, and already go to bed." This phrase is very funny, but it does not make no sense, in our time sex on a first date is a bit of a norm, some men do not even think differently.
However, I want to understand whether such a rush is in favor of relations? According to experts, of those relationships that are based on passion, only about 12% have a chance to create a strong family. The unlimited sexual attraction that arose at the very beginning of the relationship between a man and a woman will eventually fade away, introduce the lack of common themes for conversation, and the relationship comes to an end. Many women often do not want to give themselves to carnal pleasures in the first stages of the relationship.
Therefore, we wrote down some of the tips that will enable the girl to postpone busy sex with her new boyfriend.
- At the first stages of the relationship, it is not necessary to meet a man alone at home or at his home, especially late at night.
- It is best to plan meetings in the afternoon. Because if you lie down together in front of the fireplace, you will cover one blanket, a bottle of champagne will stand nearby, and the watch will be midnight - the man will be fully sure that this is a signal to action.
- Try to meet in public places. Ask the man to come to you, and then go with him to any institution.
- Kisses are very sensual and sexy. However, it's better to be out of the house, because they are unlikely to last long on the street, and even more will grow into something more. Do not let a man get carried away when you are alone, sit on a comfortable couch, lie on the floor, and a bedroom is nearby.
- Men can adjust the situation in such a way that after the first meetings held together you will return home late. If it seems to you that he wants to "have a cup of tea," and you are not yet ready for it, firmly say goodbye to him near the door. In the case of an apartment building, it's best to say goodbye to the lobby, after saying something like "Thank you, dear." It was a fine evening. " At late arrivals home do not tell the man: "Okay, you can come to me, just not for long." Any invitation in the evening home a minute, can only end in the morning.
- Laugh at his jokes, smile, become his good companion. Your goal is, you became a friend for a man, but an unusual mistress. When a guy starts to talk about himself, this is the first sign that you are doing everything right. A man will open only in front of the woman who likes him. Flirt boldly, but moderately. Be cautious with sexlike jokes, as they are not often common jokes. Men often use humor to check "the soil under their feet". Do not be boring, over a good joke is not a sin to laugh. However, on sexual topics, too long to be delayed, the man can regard your behavior as a "green light".
- It is not necessary to cross the limits of what is permissible and in the machine. Do not let him unbutton or, even less, take off your clothes, he will be difficult to stop his actions. Any young man with a new BMW will be only happy to "play" with the vamina rear seats. In general, for this they buy such machines.
- Often say a man compliments. Constantly understand to him what it means to you, that he is desired. For example, it will be nice for a man, when, as if by accident, you will breathe the fragrance of his decor at embraces. You can say that today it looks great. Etimvy implicitly hint to him that your waiting attitude is not at all related to his unwillingness as a man.
- You can show your feelings in public. This is safe, since nothing more can happen in this situation.
- Do not force yourself into a time frame. It is not necessary to say that you need to wait a month. Do not call exact dates - they are useless. This very moment should happen only when you find yourself ready for it, and not a day earlier.
- By your actions, show that a person is not indifferent to you, that you love him. Put your head on his shoulder or take his hand, so he will feel like a man. You can stroke his knee on the inside, but do not play - just knee! In no event will it be possible to rise higher, a man can regard this step as an "invitation".
- Do not believe the man's phrase: "We'll all know how to cheat." Even if he always appeared before you only on the very best side, in such situations, male hormones can choose outward, and he goes further than you would like.
- Do not give the man funny signals. The masculine is arranged differently than the woman's, and it can be regarded as your, at first glance, innocent act in a completely different way. As a woman can send an ambiguous signal, I'll show you an example. You invited a guy to your home after a pouring rain, cooked him hot tea, wrapped in a blanket, and you put on your favorite, warm and cozy pajamas. Many girls will think: "And what's that?" Pajamas are rather conservative, in order for a guy to be more appreciated as an invitation to intimacy. However, this is not quite true! Clothing that is designed for sleeping in the eyes of a man looks quite unambiguous. And it does not matter at all whether this is a flannel nightie, pajamas or even it will be ridiculous boxer shorts - a man will immediately regard your actions as a "green light".
Finally I want to say, despite the fact that all men subtly compel girls on their first date for sex, on the inside somewhere in the back of their mind they want you to make them wait a little. They want to believe that you are "special." Each of them wants you to be the most attractive, wonderful and the best of all. He wants you to think him out of the ordinary and laugh at his jokes. A man wants to see with a goddess nearby. Let them wish you, pursue you and do not yield to them quickly and easily. And only then will you become the "Ideal Woman" for the very one that cares for you!