Flirting or, as it is called in the people, an easy novel is considered one of the most enjoyable stage in any relationship. Therefore, no girl should forget about the art of flirting. The main thing that the guy realized that all these tendernesses are intended for him. Sometimes flirt in a public place or with the next acquaintance with a man is not all ladies. Some of the fair sex are much better given a virtual flirtation with a man, the basics of which we will try to teach you today.
Romantic mood
Romance, in the first place, should become the basis of virtual flirting with a man. Of course, to start a love game with a man on the other side of the monitor with the words "I love you!" Is not worth it. Put everything aside and start an easy and not forced correspondence with the man you like. In this virtual conversation you should have compliments, ambiguous hints and other variety of the initial stage of building relationships. The main thing is not to bend the stick, because of the usual praise and affection is very little.
Subtlety of the case
Are you sure that you will meet "in real life", do not worry about "will he call you?" And are completely sure that he is not married. But, despite all this, remember that a stable relationship in the future should initially be built on revelation (in all senses of the word). Just for this reason, gradually you need to translate your virtual flirt into a frank form. The risk in this case looks ridiculous, and especially not be afraid of the fact that the initiative from you first will not find its response from the male side. That you should bravely quote "frank jokes" and throw off to your virtual cavalier the photos on which you are imprinted in a swimsuit. Believe me, this kind of flirting is much more effective than pink hearts and cute little animals in the pictures.
Without going beyond
Men hardly appreciate frivolous messages, because to the stronger sex, because of their prudence and logic, it is difficult to switch from a conversation about politics to a story about lace underwear, especially if the man is talking to you from a working computer. But such a thing as "difficult" does not always mean that this should not be done, because flirting in the workplace, which has shades of forbidden and secret, winds much more. Of course, here it is necessary to adhere to the specific frameworks set so as not to put the object of your adoration into an unpleasant situation. Do not send ten e-mails to the working e-mail with the words "You are so sweet ..."
Step by step
Virtual flirtation should develop gradually, leaving all the most interesting for a spectacular finale. You can start this game with innocent romantic messages and coquetry, eventually move on to a photograph in a frank swimsuit, and at the end of the day the heated man should hear from you a hint about the continuation of your novel (if you, of course, are set to continue this). The final moment "in real" should be no less inspiring, so it is necessary to prepare for it in advance, having thought out your appearance to the smallest detail. By the way, stop flirting with a gentleman at a real meeting is also not worth it, because you are a woman who is peculiar to "play with a man."
Dialog window
Flirting is usually a conversation between two people, so compliments and messages "in one direction" over time become uninteresting. For this reason, psychologists advise in virtual flirtation to use so-called "open" messages, which contain a direct question and require continuation of the dialogue. If the answers of the men are short and dry, do not get upset - sometimes a man is difficult when dealing with a woman to rebuild himself in a romantic way. Just do not stop half way and give the man the opportunity to answer the question, not showering him with messages. On your part, you need to respond in an inspired manner to the answers.
And finally, your flirting messages should not cast a man, otherwise the flow of fantasy can be exhausted. Yes, and much nicer to wait for the answer from the man himself, rather than demand it!