How can I meet a boy at school

We study at the same school, but unfortunately, we can not get to know each other, - a question that is being collected year by year by our schoolgirls. Begin to say hello in the middle of the school year - not every girl will decide, and it is unlikely that it will bear any fruit. And yet, how can one get acquainted with a guy at school in order to make it without any hints and quite unobtrusively?

Many girls experience difficulties with dating. Especially if it concerns the collective (school, university, court, rest, etc.). The main thing here is to start a conversation. Remember, the biggest mistake will be if you say directly to the forehead that you want to get acquainted. We must start with something neutral. To get acquainted is best in free time, for example, after school or at a break. It depends on what class or parallels it is in, or maybe your classmate. So how can you meet a guy at school? You like any girl need help and this is your plus, most of the guys with pleasure you will not be denied this or that request. If you know that, he is well versed in this or that subject, take advantage of this.

For example, come up with the question: "but you could not help me solve the problem", or "help me find the abstract," "what did you have on the control" and much more. This is a good way to get to know and talk, and there's an occasion for a meeting. The common cause unites. The main thing is to do it easily and unobtrusively. Ask him about his interests, about your favorite books, movies, etc. Learn about it as much as possible, and you will have what to talk about with it in the future. By the way, to begin with, discuss your teachers - this is the best way for rapprochement. Well, if suddenly, the guy does not immediately respond to your request, do not be surprised, maybe did not expect that they would turn to him with a request and because of this embarrassed. Discharge the environment, again, some kind of theme close to you. For example, about a recently written test or dictation. If you do not know what to talk about, let him say. Just ask a specific topic of the conversation, that is, do not say "tell something", but start like this: "I like this kind of computer game ..." or something else. In a second he will join the conversation and you will already be listening to him. Guys like to talk about something and when they are very carefully listened. Then do not forget to tell a little about yourself and ask about his life. Be smiling, cheerful, optimistic, easy - then everything will turn out. After all, tension is the main enemy of communication. Tell me all sorts of tricks, joke - guys like gay girls.

Also the best way is to ask for a textbook, a leaf, a test paper, a clean notebook. Approach him, ask him for something from the above. The next day you can safely welcome your "savior." So, you have already started to say hello - not bad for a start. True? After a while, you can repeat the call for help. Just do not repeat yourself. If he still did not meet, but did not stop saying hello. A little wait and act yourself. Choose the moment when it will be with a friend (ie in a small company). Do not forget to look great this day. Come with jocular words like: "Savior, hello! We learn in one school, but we do not know each other. How is it that we still do not know each other? My name is so-and-so, and you? Let's get acquainted! Learning will be more fun! ". Try also to get acquainted more closely with his school friends (the closest of classmates). Knowing them, you can boldly approach him at a break, even if he communicates with them.

Mutual friends at school (and this, I think, will be in any way) is another, important plus, in your favor. From them you can learn more about the guy that you will help to create a picture of your acquaintance in advance. They can also, quite by chance (at your request) introduce you, which is one of the best ways you can learn about the existence of each other. Or hint to him that he is interested in one girl from school (of course, do not say who). Here it becomes clear by his reaction whether he wants to get acquainted with anyone at any given moment or not. It is not excluded that he himself will be very interested in his fan and then the first step will be on his part.

Another way to get acquainted with the guy from school, are a variety of social networks ("VKontakte", "Classmates", a variety of chat rooms). Like any teenager of our time, somewhere else, he definitely registered. Find it there, talk, and then cross in real. By the way, I think he will remember you from your photos and the fact that he will come to school himself is not excluded. The main thing is to interest him, through your online communication and at the same time find out what he is, what he likes, what music he listens. Show yourself from various sides of communication, prove that you are a very interesting person. By the way, during your dating without the help of the Internet, take an interest: "Are you in contact?". The same evening, safely add it to friends and the Internet to help you.

And finally, remember that to win the sympathy of the boy, with some special tricks is almost impossible. Do not break your head in vain. Be as you are. Do not forget that not all guys are sociable and very easily go to contact, and especially on the first step in getting to know and communicate. There are guys who are very shy by their nature. And during a conversation, behave as, at first glance may seem, too constrained and hesitant. But do not you think he is not embarrassed at all. This is his nature. He just shy of showing any sympathy for the girls. In this case, the full initiative lies only on you. Try to talk him through, do everything possible that he would feel comfortable next to someone like you. And I think that there will be nothing shameful. If you are the first to invite him to walk after school or on weekends. It is even possible that he will be very grateful to you and, of course, he will see in you, something more than just a friend. And your one general theme called "school" will only help you.