Different interests
A guy and a girl can have completely different interests in life. For example, he after work is best to sit at least a couple of hours at the computer, playing DotA, and then a little read a serious book. And the girl, in turn, loves to study oriental dances and fayerom. Their jobs seem to be not very much in the way of each other and hamper, but in the end, in any conflict, the girl begins to resent the popolov that the young man does not move away from the computer, and he is angry, considering her studies are also meaningless. In this case, the difference in interest leads to the fact that the couple, at any opportunity, begins to turn each other's hobbies into cons. On the one hand, this seems to be no excuse for parting, but on the other hand, such little things are gradually growing like a snowball, as a result you can no longer look calmly at what the person doing is doing. In this case, you need to learn to understand the Hobbes halves. It is to understand. You do not have to love him, do not have to deal with him with this affair together. You just have to understand it. And that's all. In the wine case, conflicts on the basis of such small things can really reach the widest scales, and you already can not be together because of mutual irritation.
Different purposes
Everyone has a purpose in life. Someone wants to make a dizzying career, for someone the most important is to create families and the birth of children, and some just want to live in peace, especially without stress, and that no one should touch them. If a couple is created by people with different goals, this can cause permanent conflicts. Moreover, the more radically opposite in one plane of the goal, the situation is hoc- gful. For example, if a man wants a family and children, and a woman, on the contrary, does not want to think about this for a long time, since she has the first place in the career, in this case it is very difficult to avoid quarrels and mutual misunderstandings. Most likely, such people still do not It is worthwhile to be together, because they simply will torture each other. After all, the goal is the most important thing that we have in life. And if someone tries to take it away from us, and it does not matter, especially not, then we gradually begin to simply hate this person. Vitoga turns out that a woman who wanted to achieve something in her life and provide her family, after twenty years with hatred looks at her husband lazy, who worked all his life, as it is necessary and where necessary, did not achieve anything, and because he lived as he wanted, without straining himself. Therefore, if you see that you and your young man really do not have different, acar- dinally opposite goals in life, you will still be better off. Of course, this is difficult and painful, because now there is love between you. But on the other hand, think that after ten years you will not be able to look at the arcs and you will only regret that you lost so much time for nothing.
Miscellaneous attitude to life
No wonder they say that the relationship kills bytovuha. In fact, it is precisely the different attitudes to life that often cause a quarrel between conflicts. For example, the girl grew up in a family, where even for one unheard of the garbage her parents were already scolding her so that she remembered forever the rule: keep the house in perfect purity. A young man, on the contrary, refers to such things quite negligently and can safely wipe the beer with a towel found in the bathroom. Or the young man grew up in a house where the cleaning takes place almost every day and every rag has a separate value, and the girl lived with her family, who never paid much cleaning time. When such people meet, they do not even suspect that reluctance can begin to ruin the way of life. But settling in one house, there are constant quarrels and scandals, because someone can not tolerate the ideal cleanliness, as in a museum, and someone's heart stops when he sees a hasty start to wipe with a face towel. In this case, everything depends on the stubbornness of men and women. If a person realizes that he is still doing something wrong and decides that he can improve, then everything is in order. But if in one house everyone starts to establish their own rules, then in this situation, everyday problems turn into constant quarrels and scandals. Of course, you can simply ignore what your half does and act in your own way, but unfortunately, almost no one can withstand things that have been instilled into him from childhood as unacceptable. Therefore, if you see that absolutely incompatible in everyday life, really approximate how much you can stand it. Think about how you will educate children when the pope has some rules, and my mother - completely different. And already starting from all this, decide whether your love is stronger or even worth to part and find those people who will not faint from what they see in your home.
Other feelings of humor
And one more difference between people, which one should remember is a sense of humor. On the one hand, it's funny to disagree because you do not understand each other's jokes. But on the other hand, the problem is that the relationship can not be built only on one love and sex. If people do not have their own crazy, then this timepiece is very difficult. Agree, it often happens that, for example, a guy jokes in the company of friends and everyone laughs and only his girlfriend whispers "votidiot". And looking at her constantly displeased face, a man also begins to feel the mood. Of course, this problem is not so serious as all the previous ones, but in this case, you can advise instead of quarreling, trying to understand each other's jokes or at least not expressing your open dissatisfaction, especially if you see that other people like everything and they have fun .
One can never say for sure whether it is worth to go to different people. It all depends on how patient you are and whether you can turn a blind eye to behavior that is unacceptable to you. It is from this that you need to start off in the first place when you make a decision.