It was revealed that women, unlike men, do not experience orgasm with each sexual intercourse. Female orgasm depends on a number of factors, and not just excitement.
And do not despair if during lovemaking you can not reach orgasm, because the sexual satisfaction of women is influenced by many factors. Do not rush to the conclusions that a man is behaving incorrectly or between partners is a cold relationship. Below is what determines the female orgasm.
Menstrual cycle
Orgasm depends on the phase of the menstrual cycle. It is known that there is some relationship between the hormonal status of women and the onset of orgasm. Although it is impossible to reduce everything only to the physiological characteristics of the female sex.
It is revealed that some women feel a strong sexual attraction in the middle of the menstrual cycle, then an orgasm is achieved. On such days the probability of becoming pregnant significantly grows and the psychological factor comes into play. A woman has a fear of unplanned conception, which prevents her from having fun in sex. Although with masturbation, it can easily reach orgasm.
This also explains the fact that some women easily reach orgasm during menstruation, when their head is free from the thoughts of accidental pregnancy.
Orgasm in women during pregnancy and lactation
Many women stop experiencing sexual attraction and orgasm during pregnancy and during lactation (it should be noted that there are also known opposite cases). In fact, orgasm is a millennium developed mechanism. Nature honed it in order to increase the number of copulations, and hence the probability of leaving offspring. So it turns out that when a woman arrives in orgasm, a woman no longer needs.
Anatomical features of a woman
Often a woman can not get pleasure from sex, because the partner does not know her erogenous zones. Many women simply need simultaneous stimulation of such erogenous zones as the clitoris, the vagina, the nipples, the perineum.
Such areas for women are individual, so it is worth talking to a partner about their preferences in sex.
Psychology of women and orgasm
Whatever the characteristics of the female body, the main factor limiting the onset of orgasm is psychological.
It was revealed that a full orgasm is more experienced by those women who completely trust the partner. For a woman it is important to feel and see the desire and effort of a man to give her pleasure in sex, while taking care of her.
Many women just afraid to lose some control over themselves, because then they will appear in front of the partner in an ugly kind. Such shyness leads to the fact that a woman constantly controls her facial expressions, movements during sex. This does not allow her to relax and have fun. In this situation, an important role is assigned to a man. He must arrange the woman with his caresses, words, movements.
Scientific research
The results of studies by Scottish scientists suggest that a woman's ability to achieve orgasm can depend on her gait. According to them, women with a more relaxed gait tend to feel orgasm more often than others. This is because the energy from the legs to the spine rises more freely when walking with the rocking of the hips.
There is evidence that the likelihood of orgasm in women significantly increases if it wears socks. This is confirmed by statistics that women who have sex in socks are more likely to be satisfied than those who do not wear socks. These observations are explained by the presence on the foot of specific receptors that can be involved in the onset of orgasm.
This effect can be obtained if you make love in high-heeled shoes. In addition, they contribute to the achievement of orgasm in women, they look very erotic. Such results were obtained by Italian scientists based on the study of women wearing heels 7 cm high. This fact is explained by the fact that in such women the pelvic muscles become stronger, which increases sexual arousal.