What if you lost your job?

Nowadays, when mass reductions occur, it is very easy to be fired, and employers do not always warn the employee 2 weeks before they leave. Such an event can drive even optimists into a corner. What if you lost your job? The first thing is, do not immediately panic, depression, because you are not the first and not the last, with whom this can happen. Call for help people's wisdom and self-control, because the tears of grief will not help, and then the morning is wiser than the evening. Take these proverbs in aid and go to sleep, and tomorrow will act on the situation.

Situation number 1.
When the husband is the main earner in the house.

It's terrible to lose a job, but not deadly, and forced simple, treat like a kind of vacation. During this period, have a good rest, take care of your family and yourself, because your appearance will only improve, your condition will improve, and your husband will appreciate it and become more gentle and attentive to you. Is not this the woman's happiness?
Perhaps your child has bad grades at school, help him fix them, try to pay more attention to him, because he was so lacking when you were busy with work, interest the child with something. Maybe he should do sports, music, ask what he would like to do and try to help him as much as possible.

For his career well-being would be good to do coaching. To do this, hire a personal coach, so that he was a professional in his field, and could tell you what you personally would like to do. Perhaps, somewhere deep inside us is sitting dissatisfaction with his profession, and then anger is accumulated for everything, including the family. Just have to tell yourself honestly that with the choice of profession you just made a mistake, and it's time to change it for another. When else to change a trade, how not at a time when you are in forced idle time.

Situation number 2.
When you were the only and the main earner in your family.

Of course, there are more problems in this situation, but do not despair. Any change, this is only for the best, it's all up to you. First, register at the labor exchange. For a while, you can collect documents, but you will receive a whole year, help from the state and it will help you to live. The amount of the grant depends on the earnings on your last job for the last 6 months. Whatever it was, the unemployment benefit will not be very different from the previous earnings.

A couple of days of rest and prepare to find a job. Write a detailed resume, in which indicate everything that you know how to do, give examples of your work in the portfolio. Think about someone who could give you a good recommendation for your work and in the resume please contact these people's phones. For yourself, make a list of those enterprises where you would like to work and every day you go for 1-3 interviews until you find what you need.

At the same time, the exchange will deal with the issues of your employment, you will not have to miss boredom. If 10-15 vacancies are offered to you on the stock exchange, which you will be offered, then you will be advised to change the work profile and go through training at the expense of the exchange. For you there will be a unique opportunity to change your life for free, find a job and do something, perhaps, what you dreamed about.

But what you can not do is go to any job to temporarily plug a hole in your family budget, because nothing is more permanent than temporary. After all, if you find yourself uninteresting work, then simply doom yourself to daily anguish. When there is no money, find yourself some kind of work-outs that will not interfere with finding an interesting job. If you know math or languages, give private lessons, if you own a design, photography or art of the word, do freelancing. Now, there are a lot of freelance labor exchanges, and you can find a job. Also you can knit on orders, clean up other people's apartments, cook, try, so that this part-time job does not take from you more than 3-4 hours a day.

Continue to look for your work, if possible, visit a few coaching lessons, this will help you understand yourself and gain confidence in yourself. Be sure, be calm and everything will turn out!