Every man wants to appear as a Man with a capital letter, and therefore, the smartest, most intelligent, most reliable, most indispensable and, of course, the most beautiful. A woman who gives him such an opportunity can not but draw attention. Most often men do not like what you are, but who he is next to you. Do it so that next to you he seemed to himself almost a god. Today we will talk about 10 effective ways to win the heart of a man.
- A man should listen carefully, preferably without interrupting. It is even better to follow the course of the narrative and, in the right places, groan, gasp and nod, preserving the interested expression on the face. Meet in the conversation and demonstrate your intelligence is not worth it, now our task is to make it so that he was pleased to communicate with you. And it should mainly communicate. Of course, this does not mean that you need to behave like a Chinese idiot, and even more so, it is not worthwhile to think of thinking somewhere far away. A couple of sensible remarks will help the cause, but do not get carried away. Still, whatever they told us, they do not like too smart women.
- Remember, at this stage the smartest is him. Do not forget to inform him about it as often as possible. Flattery can be as rough as possible, most often men sincerely believe in their uniqueness. The only thing - let your compliments be at least in some way consistent with the essence. If he is not particularly handsome, do not sing the praises of his appearance - perhaps he quite reasonably estimates these parameters and does not believe a penny. I advise you to focus on his masculine qualities, mind and courage. As a rule, no man will deny himself the pleasure of believing your words that in matters of masculinity he surpasses all his kindred.
- Ask him to help you, because he is the smartest, the bravest, and you are so defenseless and not at all adapted to the hardships of life. Men often like to help and feel tender feelings for helpless women. Just do not ask him to dig up a couple of beds or move a huge cabinet, the physical load can not please him. Choose something safer, preferably what he ac. Perhaps he is a computer genius or just a middle-aged user? Well, let him help you install Photoshop and maybe even give a couple of lessons. Nothing is as close as time spent for his favorite pastime.
- So get yourself a hobby like him. He loves poker? I'll have to learn, and even better ask him to teach you. Collect coins? Great, you've long dreamed of becoming a numismatist. Read the literature on the topic, ask a few questions, but not too smart, choose something neutral so that it can flash erudition. Even better, if your common hobby will lead to a joint pastime. A good option is treasure hunting. It's very romantic to travel to nature in search of antiquities. You can do the same sport as him, go to the same room. The main thing that he was not fond of ice fishing - not women's business ...
- Give him a small but pleasant service. Maybe he collects stamps, but do you have a couple of rare ones? Surely he will be happy with the gift and invite to dinner to thank. If you work together, you can support it morally in the next project, or help a little in the work. Only in no case should we do this work for him - our task is only to be there at the right time and provide support.
- Sometimes the way to the heart of a man really lies through the stomach. Try to find out what his favorite dish is and cook for him. You do not have to show your attention openly, you can cook for all colleagues or friends, if you spend time in one team, having tracked that he does not remain deprived and noticed how delicious you cook. Particularly well, if someone from your friends will freely praise your culinary talents.
- Always effective is a method called "a crowd of fans." A smart woman knows how to surround herself with unobtrusive fans or at least create a literate imitation of this crowd. A few calls from different men in his presence, a couple of bouquets and a few phrases in the topic, dropped by your common acquaintances - and now you have the reputation of a claimed woman. He will certainly look at you with other eyes and most likely will join the hunt - after all, you did not in vain convince him that he is the best. Using this method, the main thing is to be moderate - otherwise a man may hesitate in his forces or simply be afraid to get lost in the crowd.
- In war as in war: before going into the attack on the enemy, you need to scout dispositions. In other words, to find out what kind of women he likes? Perhaps he likes the Marilyn Monroe type, and you are a tall, thin brunette? But this is not a problem - just forget about jeans and put on a feminine dress. Changing the image will certainly attract his attention and give him the opportunity to see you from the other side. Be always impeccable, become an example of beauty and elegance. A man will not leave without attention an effective woman.
- Do not be "your boyfriend," even if you've known each other for many years. A woman should be a mystery, let you be accompanied by a fable of mystery. This is difficult to achieve if you are long friends, but still you can. Escape from it, even if the habitual way is slightly broken. Have you always been ready to go with him to a bar and have a beer? Change the habitual way - and maybe he will understand that he is terribly short of you. Then, at the next meeting, wear a beautiful dress, and instead of a beer bar, go to a cozy restaurant to spend an evening with a glass of wine. Such changes are sure to please him.
- And finally, never lose optimism and positive. Men love women who are contented with life. Such a woman is the most reliable rear, she will always support and help feel like a real man.
Now you know 10 effective ways to win the heart of a man. Whatever you do to enchant a man, remember that the main thing is to remain a real woman, and then a real man will be next to you.