And by the way, if you think about it, this question is not devoid of philosophical overtones and can become one with the epoch-making "What to do?" And "Who is to blame?"
The definition of an ideal woman (not to be confused with an ideal wife!) In different epochs and centuries was perceived in different ways. In any case, it depended more on reigning around morals and, in fact, the debauchery of "males". But time went on, views changed ... And now, the ideal of a woman again represents something unimaginably beautiful.
About an ideal woman the peasants say little and unintelligibly, for they, as being stale, mundane and pragmatic, are well aware of the unreality of the existence of this. However, this does not prevent them from discussing the parameters of these very "ideals," because nuclear physicists are discussing all sorts of oddities there, like positrons and other antimatter, which in nature do not really exist!
For some reason, there is an opinion that the ideal woman or in general should be dumb, or speak quietly, quietly and little-little. I remember an anecdote about two men, one of whom complains about a woman-saw, and the second - on a woman-sparrow: "... I will come home, and she will give slippers, and bring a newspaper, and sit in a chair, and she sits next to her and chirps, chirps, chirps ... so he would have! "
So why do men react so nervously to a desire to speak out. It's all about the special arrangement of the nervous system. The Australian manual for girls, published in the 1960s for high school students, reads: "Do not enter into conversations with your husband, do not forget that he is very tired, what he has to go every minute and every day in his service, for you - silently feed him, and only after that, when he reads the newspaper, you can try to talk with him. " I think that most of us can challenge this claim, they say, we also work, we get stress, and some earn more. But, my dear, think: men are inherently more imperfect beings. Have you seen at least once that men can simultaneously do two things well. So with rest - they are not able to relax at the same time and listen to that heap of news that women are trying to piss on them already from the doorstep. Therefore, we can safely say that the ideal woman should speak only pleasant to the man, and only after he himself expresses and rests.
Now let's think about the monologue of the ideal woman. Firstly, the phrase "You're so smart," "You're wonderful," "I'm proud of you," and so on, in the same way, superfluous never happen. You can not spoil the porridge with oil! Men really adhere to flattery, you can not even doubt. And the higher their self-esteem rises, the more willing they turn off common sense. It's a sin not to take advantage of such a successful situation! But here the main thing is not to overdo it, and this side, unfortunately, can not be felt by many women.
Another phrase, so to say a ready bait on the hook of flattery is the banal "How do I feel good about you". Constantly feeling that he justifies the hopes placed on him, a man is unlikely to go looking for a "better share."
If you carefully analyze what ideal women should say, the phrase "for certain" falls into the rating of the phrase "You have such a wonderful (-e, -ye) mom / dad. She / he brought up a real man. " If we understand, we were all born and raised by parents, and it seems that our "ancestors" are more important, BUT! We return to the question of male pride ...
"Since you do it, no one does it!", "I've never had such a thing!", "God, how good it is with you" ... Although not, about the last phrase from the ideal woman, I probably got excited. A man is not ready to tolerate in bed anyone who is superfluous, even THE MOST ... In his own "den", a real man is a king and a god, and an ideal woman must in every way prove this (sometimes not only to a man, but to herself!).
A real ideal woman says about her man is always a lot and only good. In the opinion of 48% of the interviewed representatives of the stronger sex, the ideal woman in their understanding should speak only smart things, but ... do not seem smarter than their companion. True, only 9% of the respondents admitted that they are interested in the honesty of the interlocutor.
The ideal woman should speak for a man: tell the boss that her companion is busy and can not work on Sunday, because he is the most valuable employee (here, no one else agreed); Tell his mom - his mother-in-law, that everything is kept only on him; Tell your friends that he is engaged in sports (here, watching football matches, lying on the couch with a newspaper and a bottle of beer). It should be a kind of "mouthpiece" of salvation, a shelter from the hardships of "this world."
The ideal woman should speak beautifully. Even insults in her mouth can turn into praise. She should not talk about herself, because all her little achievements are great men's victories.
And in conclusion of the "short essay" about what ideal women should say, I would like to insert a phrase heard from one of my friends: "An ideal woman is not the same as me. With me - the best! ". So can well, them, these "ideal women", go to the bar, be pampered ...