Blackmail feelings
If a man blackmails you with your own feelings, then you should never succumb to such tricks. When a guy says that he will stop loving you or saying that you do not like him, because you do not fulfill his whims, there is only one conclusion - you simply do not need him. Such a relationship has never been and will not be normal. Therefore, it is unnecessary to justify it and invent something that is not really. Only evil and cruel people go on blackmail. Otherwise, people always give their loved ones freedom of action. If you notice that a young man is constantly trying to manage you with blackmail, then you need him for some kind of tormentor reasons, and not because he loves you. Maybe the guy came up with an image and tries to fit you into it. In this case, he loves his dream girl, but you do not really care about your feelings and emotions. The most reasonable thing is just not to succumb to blackmail. Perhaps a man will understand that he is doing wrong. But most likely, you will have to part with it. And believe me, this will be the most correct way out. It is better to suffer now than to suffer with the blackmailer throughout life.
Estimate possible losses
If it is a question of real blackmail, when you are threatened and promised to spoil your life, in case you do not fulfill the requirements, immediately evaluate the possible losses. Remember that blackmailers never get rest assured. For example, if he said to give him money once, then he promised to leave you alone - do not believe it. All people are not averse to gaining easy money, but they are stopped by moral principles. People like your boyfriend do not have morals at all. They will come to you again and again, and with each request will grow. So think about whether to give in to blackmail.
At the moment, you may feel that you simply can not do otherwise. But this is not so. Guys basically promise to disclose some intimate details of your life. In this case, each girl begins to worry about what friends and parents will think about her. Never forget: those who love us will continue to love, even when we have stumbled. Therefore, if you are sure that your family and friends love you, then you should not even think about what a blackmailer can influence their relationship. Of course, you may be scoffed and so on, but no one will refuse you. And believe me, if it's fair in everything to confess to parents first, it will be much better.
It may also be that you are not sure about the love of the family and the people. In this case, do not pay attention at all to the words of these people. Such friends are simply not necessary to you, and if you talk about your parents, it's better for the money that you give to the shamist, take off your apartment and get away from them than all your life from someone else, to depend on. Understand, if parents can not accept you with your mistakes, then such people do not deserve to go to similar sacrifices of radishes. Remember the following: it's better to be alone, but to completely belong to yourself, to cheat in the illusion of having a family and friends, while having someone to be afraid of someone for the rest of your life.
Beloved brothers
If you fell into the hands of a blackmail fellow, but you have favorite brothers, then all problems are resolved even faster. Just do not ask the boys for help. Even if they scold you, vseravno for a sister, any brother "breaks" the offender. Moreover, the brothers are not parents, so it's easier for them to tell what happened. Believe me, in this situation, the elementary male power can solve the problem. Such an outsider, in essence, are cowardly and weak. They can frighten you, but if they are visited by a company of young people who clearly understand that blackmail will not lead to anything good, almost always the men are frightened and forget about you. Many girls, faced with blackmail, make one huge mistake - they are silent. It is not right. It is this kind of behavior that the blackmailer counts on. He is sure that you will be frightened, you will not say anything to anyone, and accordingly, there will be no one to protect you. Therefore, it will be a big surprise for the guy that your brothers will appear with friends whom they are most likely to take with them. And after a short, but a constant conversation, most likely, the blackmailer will suddenly change his mind about spoiling your life and will take care of your affairs, and forget about you for good.
Do not hesitate to seek help from law enforcement agencies
Remember that not every blackmailer can be cleared up on his own. Therefore, if you know that a person is really inadequate from his actions, not only you, but also your loved ones, you can be injured-contact the police. And before that tell your family. As you know, our police, of course, protects us, but not always so, so I would like. Therefore, if you understand that the situation is getting out of control, stop trying to solve something yourself. Understand that instead of getting out, you will tighten the ball even more. So do not waste your time and do not make your own excuses. Not everyone can explain something, but everyone can be pressured by force. And if you do this with the same way, then you have every right to act in response in the same manner. So, no matter how shame you are, gather your will into a fist and go to the police. Believe me, when a person has problems with the psyche, he can go for anything. There are cases when blackmailers themselves reach the killings of their victims or bring them to the point that people put their hands on themselves. No shame is more painful than losing one's health, one's will and one's life. From shame, you can run to another city or even to another country. The people around us are still oblivious to forget everything in due course. But if your health suffers because of shame or you lose your life, then nothing can be fixed any more.