This stage includes one important question, what needs to be done, before adopting a child. And before you adopt a child you need to think carefully about a number of important questions, such as who are going to take a boy or a girl to you, whether you will first take guardianship over the child or immediately become a guardian instead of him, and parents, you need to consider what age to take the child . Adopting a child up to a year or infants will be difficult enough for these children are huge queues. And the cherished kid will have to wait a year or two, or even more. It is easier to adopt children from one year to four years. This is the most suitable age for adoption, at this age the child is just beginning to shape his character. Therefore, future parents will be much easier to re-educate. But with children older than five years will be quite difficult. As a rule, these children already understand and understand everything, they become embittered all over the world, it is very difficult to achieve mutual understanding with them. They look at future parents as enemies. Very often in practice, parents return such children back to orphanages or boarding schools. Because, not everyone can properly educate them.
What you need to do before you adopt a child, if you have already decided on the gender and age of your future baby. To do this, you need to contact the district child protection service. There you will be given a referral for a medical report. It will also be necessary to collect a lot of other documents that will be indicated. Therefore, you need to prepare in advance for what, will, have a lot of running around the various instances. If you also work, it will be about one to two months. In addition, you need to bring information about the criminal record, the income, the availability of your housing. The requirements for housing are very strict. And if the guardianship agencies find even the slightest deviation of the requirements from the standards they have established, adoption can be denied. Then all the collected documents are submitted to the child services department and there, an act on your conditions will be drawn up within 10 days. From that moment you can already become an adopter.
In the guardianship agencies, you are given a lot of different forms with photos. The questionnaires detail every child, their diseases, their progress in educational activities and other necessary information. With these questionnaires you need to do the following, select from them a few within ten. You are, as it were, choosing candidates for adoption. This choice is not easy, there are many questionnaires. As a rule, children with serious diseases are rejected immediately. Choose usually healthy. After several children are selected, you will have to go to children's homes and look at the kids. To do this, it is advisable to choose who will be the first. Since on the second child you have the right to go see only if the first child does not suit you. Choosing one baby, you go to his orphanage, there will be your first acquaintance with him. This moment is very responsible and exciting for both future parents and the baby. If you have contact with the child did not work out the first time, then you go to watch the next turn of the children. If on the contrary, you understand that this child is yours. And he easily contacts you. You decide on it. And then the so-called "period of habituation" begins. You must constantly go to visit the baby in the orphanage. This is done to make a child, and you could get used to each other. If within a month you will be completely sure that you want to adopt this child, then you can already safely take him home.