It is necessary, above all, to become a positive example for the child, and not to start an unnecessary scandal. But how can you foresee this?
It's easier than you think. You are in public transport, tired at work, and saw the vacant place, but as luck would have it there is a drunk person next to you. What will you do? You can immediately be outraged, but what will be the result? Your words for him, like the wall of peas, and the reason for the conflict for a drunk person can be provoked very simply. You and your child will suffer.
Therefore, move away from the words that you need to go further and go further into the salon. It happens that you have already taken a place, and a drunk neighbor sits next to you, you have a child in your arms, it is better to transplant it so that you block it with your body or change the place, but not in the neighborhood, but away.
Also, not only a drunk person on the bus or a group of aggressive teenagers may be a danger, but also an accidentally stopped car or people who are "looking" for some street or actor for the main role. Your child should know that under no circumstances should he join anyone in conversation, let alone go with them.
Often attackers use just the inexperience and trustfulness of children. They offer to go home or look at puppies, play interesting games, etc. The child, carried away by deception, forgets about the warnings of the parents. The notorious maniac, Ashotyan, was looking for a victim with the help of his adopted daughter. She was looking for a well-dressed girl among the crowd and asking her whether she was a Muscovite or not. If she received an answer: Muscovite, she asked how to find this or that street, and if not, she invited to take part in the screen test. And having obtained consent, she led her to her stepfather, who pretended to be a director.
Then they acted according to a prearranged plan of action. The girl was brought home, given coffee with a psychotropic medicine, and as soon as she lost consciousness, the Asrotyan raped her, took her things, and the victim, dressed in rags, was thrown out in the wasteland. Later, a maniac began to kill his victims.
Children are by nature too trusting. They do not realize that a criminal can pretend to be kind outside when she is on the hunt, and only then turns into a cruel beast.
Therefore, it is necessary to clearly explain to the child that for all invitations to go somewhere, watch a movie or play with a new toy, the child must flatly refuse. He can refer to you, his parents, or that he is not interested in the offer of a stranger. And by itself tell the parents about the unknown virtue that offered him something. Much in this situation depends on you, how seriously you react to what has been said, talk with other parents, maybe their children are offered something like that, and then watch the situation when your children are playing in the yard.
It happens that an adult or the same age as a child is very assertive when they try to affect the junior's pride, like I thought you were already an adult, but your parents do not allow it. In this case, the child should say that you need to warn your mother and father where and with whom he will go, and you look at this barker. If he has come to really communicate with the child and has no bad intentions, he will even be happy to talk with you. And if not, then you are unlikely to find it.
It should be noted that attackers can use the machine, so the child should be careful when an unknown car brakes near him, he must always keep as far away from her, and if he is asked how to find a street or a house, he should say that he does not know , and also he should remember that if a stranger is out of the car, you need to run quickly to the side of the house and if you run into any yard you can shout "Mom!" or "Dad!" and wiggle as if he met his parents. It does not matter that no one answered his call. The offender is unlikely to check all the windows to attract attention.
The chance to be saved in such a situation is always there, we need only to assess the situation correctly and make the appropriate decision.
Conclusions:
- Never enter into conflict in public transport or the congestion of the people.
- If a drunk person is driving alongside you, it's best to go around him, and under no circumstances do not start a conversation with him.
- Seeing an unfamiliar company, it's better to get away from them, change direction, go to the other side of the street.
- If your child is asked how to find a street, let him answer how to get there, sketch out the plan, but do not take it into his head to see off strangers.
- When a child is provoked into an atypical act for him, teasing him that he is still small, he needs to go into the house and warn his parents with whom and where he is going.
- An unfamiliar person suggests a child to play a game or look at animals, he must resolutely refuse.
- The child was invited to the stage or to prepare for a beauty contest, let him not hesitate to ask where he should come with his parents and at what time.
- As soon as the child has told about contact with strangers who offered something to him, talk to the neighbors - parents, set the watch when the children are walking on the street. If someone is suspicious appears on the playground, give a detailed description of this person to his district officer.
- If a child is invited to sit in an unfamiliar car to show the way, he needs to keep as far from it as possible and under no circumstances there to sit down, even if he is on the way.
- When a stranger is particularly persistent, the child must approach any house, pretend that he lives here, wave his hand and call his mother or father, whom he "saw."
And remember that in most cases, the victim herself provokes the criminal for criminal acts. Therefore, observe the rules and keep your loved ones.