Practical approach.
In our time, more and more people are inclined to approach the issue of the appearance of children responsibly. The first condition under which the appearance of a child will be possible is considered to be a good relationship between the spouses. Indeed, if future parents are not able to agree among themselves, if quarrels and scandals are constantly occurring in the family, then the child will not get rid of problems, but only pour oil on the fire. A small man will be ill in a family where parents do not know how to love each other.
The second condition is health. In order to conceive, endure, give birth and raise a child, you need a lot of strength and good health. The correct decision will be to take care of your health in advance - stop smoking, limit the consumption of alcohol, exclude some medications that may affect the health of the child. In addition, it is important to get rid of some diseases, undergo a full examination with a doctor, and sensibly assess possible risks. This is necessary in order to take adequate measures when problems arise, to solve the problem in time. Sometimes you have to wait before you decide on pregnancy, some require a serious course of treatment and even surgery. All this is better done before the arrival of the child, so that the pregnancy is not burdened by the consequences of various diseases.
Another factor that influences the decision about the appearance of a baby is material well-being. Indeed, families who have, where to live, where there is a stable income, which is enough for everyone, it is easier to plan the birth of a baby. After the appearance of the child, one of the members of the family will not be able to work for a long time if it is not possible to hire an assistant or to involve relatives in the upbringing of the child. This means that the maintenance of the family will completely fall on the shoulders of another member of the family, more often the father. Not all families have the income of one family member enough to feed the rest.
Therefore, many people first solve issues with housing, make the necessary savings, career and only then decide to have a child.
But some are not ready to wait that long or do not see prospects, but do not want to postpone the birth of the baby.
With hope for the best.
Not everyone is ready to wait, in order to have a child. Sometimes pregnancy occurs earlier than it was planned. In such cases, parents are often not ready for the appearance of the baby, but are resolved at his birth, no matter what.
Perhaps in these families there are unresolved issues related to health, there may be material problems and some disagreements, but this does not mean that such parents will be bad. Children are a very powerful incentive to move forward. In a short time, future parents will have to solve many problems, prepare with the appearance of the baby and provide him with a worthy existence.
The main thing is not to give up and not to hope that the problems are solved by themselves. Children are very important, it is a huge responsibility and those who decided to have a child in their family should make every effort to change their lives for the better. Even during pregnancy, you can do a lot - to improve your health under the supervision of doctors, start a healthy lifestyle, find a good job, continue your education and prepare for the birth of your baby.
It turns out that it is not necessary to calculate your life for years to come, postpone the birth of a child for a long time. It is important to feel the potential, the ability to change something for the better, the desire to do something for the benefit of your family. And, of course, the most important is the sincere desire to have a baby. Under these conditions, even an unplanned pregnancy can become happy, and the birth of a child will bring not only problems, but also great joy. It all depends on what each parent is willing to do so that all his loved ones and he himself are happy.