1. Preparation.
If a woman does not have a permanent man with whom she always lives, then she may have various sexually transmitted diseases. Recollect, whether there are at you pathologies and an infection which could, will be transferred to your child. And for the time of treatment they are very long. Before you get yourself a baby you need to go through a lot of tests, although it's expensive, but your health will be fully known. Next, you need to choose a man from whom you would like to have your future child, it is very important that the man was completely healthy. And not the first time, it turns out, or not at all, if not the man from whom you would like to give birth.
For the result to be 100% it is necessary that both partners want this. Of course, there is a second option - a donor ... a sperm bank, when referring to this clinic that deals with similar services - you need to consider that this is a very expensive service and the probability of a successful procedure is not very large.
2. Pregnancy.
During the course of pregnancy, you need to be under the supervision of a doctor and take frequent tests so that you can find out what health the patient has. Of course, it's always nice to feel that you have a new life in your belly. The baby already has a method of speaking - pushing.
3. The birth and maintenance of the child.
And here, in the end - preparation for childbirth. Some women have fear, and it is very important that a loving man be with you and support in a difficult moment. And if you are lonely, then you need to be very strong, psychologically. When a baby appears, you need to dedicate it all the time. You have to be prepared for the fact that you will feed your child every 3-4 hours and spend sleepless nights next to him - this can last about 2 years. Every day you have to walk with him, wash and iron his clothes. All this for the first time days of motherhood will seem very difficult task. From such a monotonous life you may have depression. In normal order, you can return after 1.5 years, and maybe longer.
In the very first days the baby will begin to heal the navel and it is necessary to process it every day and not all women can be prepared for this, therefore they trust this work to the husband. And to feed the baby well with milk, the mother needs to eat well. The cost of maintaining a child is very large: diapers, food, diapers, special creams and many other things. And with the increase in the age of the child, the monetary requirements for it also increase. Often a baby can be sick and needs medicines, which is an additional cost. Also, all sorts of vitamins and massage will be needed every three months.
Before, when he is 1 year old, you need to give it for examination to many doctors: such as a surgeon, neuropathologist, oculist. They must be passed very often. Every pediatrician must walk every year to weigh, measure a child and vaccinate. After a few months of life, the child will require attention. Of course, it's very pleasant when you see how your child smiles for the first time, how he speaks. The longest time to be given to a child is when he begins to learn everything: walk, talk, and more.
While the child is young, he still does not understand that he needs a father, but when the visit to the kindergarten begins, he will definitely ask about it. And you need to be prepared for this issue. Of course, it's difficult when there is not a father near, and that's why you will have to play this role. The main thing is that you properly educate your child and give him all your love and affection.
To be a real and loving mother, one must be very strong and patient, then your son in the future will be grateful for the happy childhood he has given him.
Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site