Why did the guy immediately find another after parting?

Every woman is quite difficult to part with someone she really loved. She can not show it, but on her soul for a long time will scrape cats. Perhaps that's why doubly offensive to girls becomes at the moment when they find out that the former guy immediately found another. Women just do not know how, after parting, you can immediately fall in love with another girl? Why would a young man forget her so easily, because he swore almost in eternal love? And anyway, what motivates men who, after parting, immediately begin to meet and say the same words about love, but is completely different?


Can not be alone

Some men simply can not remain themselves. Because of certain complexes and psychology, such a guy needs a woman to be a lad. If he parted with one, then immediately finds a replacement. Such men are not particularly picky. If a woman more or less arranges them in appearance and in character, then he will be with her together until the situation is formed so that they will have to part. These guys can talk about love and deep feelings, but in fact they are not experienced. This type of man is more fixated on himself, as they try to cope with their loneliness in any way, not particularly paying attention to those whom they have chosen as a means to solve the problem. And in appearance they seem to be quite loving and romantic. But in fact, such a young man does something for his girlfriend only because he wants to keep her near. When in the life of such a man there is a woman, it is easier for him to cope with the complexes. Listening to a beautiful lady, such a young man gets an opportunity to wrestle with his complexes, which he simply can not overcome by himself. At the same time, he can fully consider his own feelings as love, because he thinks about them superficially. For such a guy, the main problems are always his problems. He thinks a lot about himself and does everything in life as he will be convenient to them. Girls who are taken off side by side, sooner or later notice this, first they try to change something, they just go away apot. And men, having made a maximum of one feeble attempt to turn a woman, "wave it on her hand" and find a new source for themselves to fight with their complexes.

Show off

Not always men really find a new love. It's just that many of them really want to show something and prove it to their former. That's why guys start dating someone. As a variant, they pretend to meet. In this case, the reason for this behavior are all the same complexes and the restrained male ego. The guy thinks: how could she leave me, so clever, beautiful and best? Nothing, I will prove that I need someone and she was very mistaken in doing this. Guided by these thoughts, the young man starts rushing headlong into clubs and other places, there are many pretty girls and he finds himself someone who can be presented to everyone as his new passion. At such moments, guys rarely pay attention to the intelligence of cute ladies and their compatibility in tastes and interests. All this fades into the background, because in the first place the guy needs to prove his masculine strength and attractiveness. And for this, he does not need a reliable companion of life, but a pretty face, about which common acquaintances will talk and rumors will reach his ex.

Yes, doing this is very low and stupid. But many people can not and do not want to understand that jealousy will never return to the woman. Yes, of course, she can be jealous, but if the girl went on bursting, because she was not really happy with the relationship, then even surrounded her with models, her ex-boyfriend will not be able to force her to return, because jealousy in this case loses very much before the rational thinking that , of course, there is such a lady. So before you start to worry because the former guy just forgot about you, take a good look at the situation. Perhaps, it is at this moment that he does everything to summon the very experiences, and you absolutely do not need it. Therefore, do not heat his excitement with his zealous views and questions to the general signs about who is with him next. And even more so do not talk about a new passive by the young man himself. If you start to react to his behavior, the effect will be achieved and you will have to walk for a very long time in a closed circle, in which you will try to part, and the young man will in all ways cause your jealousy to return you.

He just did not like

Unfortunately, the reason for such a quick switching of a woman to another woman may be the fact that a young man simply did not like his former or did not feel to her for a long time. Perhaps he began to meet with her just like that, and then he seemed to be used to it. Or saw-kills the woman loves him, so he was with her, but at heart he wanted that onasama finished the relationship. Often, women are experiencing because the young man quickly found them a replacement in the case when the ladies are the initiators of the separation. When men decide to leave, the situation is clearer, because care is due to another, or because the guy does not like. But when the girl proposes to finish the relationship, she then becomes unclear how the guy so quickly could forget about her.

In this case, men are often cowardly. They are simply afraid to take responsibility for parting, so they do everything to make a woman want to leave them, but they do not take the initiative themselves. Here, the whole thing will be, as in the previous cases, exclusively in men's complexes. The guy wants to be bad in the eyes of society, he is afraid of losing his status, afraid that people will be disappointed in him and turn away. That's why a young man simply wonders when the lady of the heart will get tired of his behavior and she will decide to leave him. And then with a clear conscience begins to build new relationships. In such a situation, women do not need to think that they are worse than something new than a new girl, to wind themselves and root in their soul complexes. Simply, we are all different people and each of us is suitable for building strong relationships, and someone is just an intermediate step that must be passed and forgotten. Therefore, it is never necessary to experience and live memories. In general, if a guy does this, then he is a weak person, depending on the general opinion. And with such a man it is very difficult to build a strong and real relationship, because he will always live with the eye of the others. Therefore, if you saw that the young man immediately began to meet with a new girl, just wish him luck and open your heart for new feelings and relationships. The fact that the former did not love you enough is not something terrible and terrible. Love is a feeling that can come and go, but with a subject, with your real half you can carry love till the end of your life. Just need to meet that particular person.