That's the truth of the problem for all completely different, well, periods of occurrence, too. In general, all childhood can be divided into four periods, although a person who is 17 years old can not already be called a child, but according to the laws this is exactly so we will assume that this is also a child. Now we will look more closely in these four periods. Here everything will have to be clear, and we will slowly get down to our main question, namely, "Why do children swear with a mat?"
So, let's start from the first period. What is he like? This period will be understood by all, without exceptions. This is an early childhood, and very early. That is, this is the time when the child does not go to school, but only in the kindergarten. We think it is immediately clear that this period does not worry the child very much, because he does not really decide anything, he just lives by all the rules. In this period, the child is usually not capricious, kind, affectionate. Just at this time, parents think that it will be a miracle child, who will obey his parents and consult with them in any situation. But this is only a preconceived opinion, the development of the child is greatly influenced by the school life, which we will continue to talk about.
Here comes the second period. This is the period of the "First Bell", when all new, new acquaintances, new knowledge and subjects. Up to grades 5-6, everything is fine, but already at those periods, children move away from teachers and adults. Here, in principle, everything is clear and clear. The class teacher supervises the children and educates them correctly, but, as many know, education does not last long.
The most difficult, third period has come. It begins in the years so in 10, ends at 14. "Tu! Short, not terrible "- you say, but not here it was. This is the most difficult age of the child. It is at this age that children actively, even can be said, are very actively swearing with mate. Why at this age? Everything is very simple. This is the period when the child gets freedom, he himself is responsible for his actions, as he thinks. That is, his brain tuned to a new life, he begins to try something new, untested earlier. The child sees that adults swear at the floor, so the children will swear with a mat. After all, they are also "adults". That's just doing it, they're too active. They want to show their peers how much they are cool. And this is quite normal, because it corresponds to their age. They do everything against their parents. Why? Yes, because they do not want to obey your rules. Well, suppose that the child is not walking along the streets, well, and does not listen to all these obscene words, what then? Where does he take all these words from? Again, the society. The school has a lot of children, and if one heard it from his parents or elsewhere, he will show it to his peers. This can not be avoided, and this necessarily happens. And do not think that this was not before. You just remember yourself as a child. Yes, before there were no computers, all this debauchery, but the abusive words were, are, and will, and this will not escape. By the way speaking about computers, rather not about them, but about the worldwide network - about the Internet. Now almost every teenager is registered in social networks. He has literally access to everything he wants. All those people who write on the Internet and use mats transmit this information to children. In general, where do not go, swear everywhere with a mat, and do not ask: "Why children? ", We have already explained this a little earlier. About how to wean him from the mat, we'll talk a little later.
The fourth period is the easiest for parents. These are children, whose age is 15-18 years. They become independent, but not in the same sense as before. Mats will not disappear anywhere, but you should understand that they are used by teenagers in the right cases, not permanently. We can even compare. Mats are used for the child in period 3, and the child says calmly: "That's just *****, I just *******, ******, ***, well, am I not right? "- that's what it looks like. But now 4 period, says angrily: "I'm shocked, could not you put a normal assessment, ****** some ...". I think you immediately noticed the difference. 4 period - the period of adulthood. Here everything starts to be done in the mind, although there are some zamorochki, but this is clearly not for this article.
Now let's talk about ways to wean a child from mats. Immediately speak, not at all it works, and, perhaps, do not even touch this topic with the child, if you are not sure.
So, let's begin.
First of all, try to find out where the source of all these words lies. Who taught him. If the classmate does not mind, call your mother and ask him to talk to him calmly, should help. If, suddenly, it turned out to be you, then, immediately take up self-control!
Now let's look at another case. Everyone knows that every child has an idol, and whoever he is, he imitates him. You should clearly understand that it will be difficult to struggle with such authority because it has achieved much greater success than you, because the child and trusts this "bright star" more, but at the fourth level he realizes how important the parents are. For example, if the child is a girl, then the probability is very high that her idol can be the same Ksenia Sobchak. She in her transmission is almost obscene and expressed, for example. Yes, on television, it's all "jammed", but all the forbidden words are bungled pretty badly, and the mouth, at the same time, is clearly visible, so that everything can be understood by articulation. If the girl likes Sobchak, then you can not persuade her that she is doing badly, and so you can not do it, and so on. Do not start criticizing the "star", on the contrary, it can aggravate the entire situation. The child, on the contrary, will begin to move away from you even more, thinking that you simply do not understand it. It will be necessary simply to explain to the child that this is such a "trick" of the show that it is forced to do so, but in reality it does not want it. Well, or something like this plan.
We hope that ours will be able to help you in this matter.