Why is this happening? Why are young people so drawn to enter into a relationship with a more adult partner? Why do young men choose women older than themselves?
After all, there is nothing more charming than watching a couple of young people, almost the same age. Thanks to public opinion, we are accustomed to this kind of relationship. And, when a young guy and an adult woman pass by you, holding hands and smiling sweetly to each other, involuntarily we wrinkle our noses and let go of non-flattering remarks to the departing: "I did not find a young girl" or "Yes she he can be fit for his mother. "
We forget the expression "all ages are submissive to love." Can not love, mutual respect, passion exist in unequal pairs?
So why do young men choose women older than themselves?
There are several reasons. Firstly, an older woman has a completely different mindset than a young girl. Secondly, an adult woman, who already has more than a dozen years behind her, has invaluable experience. She is intelligent, well-read, experienced - with her the young guy will always be interested. At the same time, a young person will always have the opportunity to learn something from his older partner, to learn from experience that will help him in later life. Thirdly, the main factor that attracts young guys is the sexual experience of an adult woman. And again, he has much to learn. With a more adult woman, young guys often become real men. Uncomfortable situations can often be avoided because of inexperience in unequal pairs.
Also do not forget that mature women to their thirty - sixty years, already are personalities. A mature woman stands firmly on her feet, she does not depend on anyone. She knows for sure that she has everything and that in case of trouble, the only person she can count on is herself. Self-confident, self-confident, self-sufficient - it is this woman who attracts young, not experienced guys.
Is there a future relationship between a young guy and an adult woman?
It is difficult to answer the question precisely, because each of us has our own destiny, and there is no opportunity to look into the future.
But, you can consider all possible outcomes of the situation when a young guy chooses a woman older than himself. Of course, there are examples where such relationships last long, when both in a pair love and are happy. But, as a rule, such relationships do not exist very long.
And all because, as it is not insulting, sooner or later, the difference in age will play its role. Or a woman will get bored with this relationship with a young guy. She will cease to like always and in everything be the main thing, to be some kind of "mommy." After all, every woman wants to feel protected, and even more so, not many are tempted to always and in everything take on their shoulders responsibility for a joint future.
Very often unequal marriages break up due to the fact that a woman closes in herself with time. She believes that she is not worthy of such a relationship. As the older she becomes, the closer the moment when her beloved young man will start to look at younger girls. In such a situation, even the adequate behavior of a young man who will try to convince his companion in pernicious thoughts will not save him. When a woman closes in her fears and complexes, as a rule, only she can help her.
Another explanation. Why unequal unions break up is really a male factor. Having gathered experience and self-confidence, so to speak, having flinched, the young guy starts to think differently. He already wants (and he is confident in his abilities) to try himself in relations with young girls.
Be that as it may, do not forget that all ages are submissive to love. And, even if your happiness does not last long, you should rejoice only in the fact that in your life there were happy moments.