But at the same time there is another opinion that it is impossible to divide people according to this character. Do not hold back the promises of men and women. But let's be frank, women like to tell stories, gossip, embellish everything. Here between women and walks: "He promised me, but did not comply." If you think about it, men never talk about it, that's the whole secret. But since we have started talking about such a topic, we need to continue.
Now let's try to understand the reasons for this all, but it will be quite difficult, because it can be called a whole science that we can not overcome. But if we can overcome it, understand its basic mechanisms, we can at least partially get rid of the various illusions that persecute us, and especially from what the man promises and does not hold back his promises. Getting rid of these illusions, we also get rid of the painful experiences that always go after them. But let's not do porridge and start in order.
Try to find someone who likes to be forced to do something by force - nobody likes it, moreover, it's also very annoying, because they also force you to hear from you also your word of honor. It is unlikely that a man in such a situation will do what is wanted from him, and if he does, the soul, he will not invest in this matter. If you take the ideal situation, then the man himself must go before that and want it himself. If this does not happen, then you are a woman, that would push him and send him to the side where your desire would become his own decision, but you also need to do this right, because the result depends on your actions. There are two options: to present an ultimatum to the husband, or to take advantage of your female gentleness, using cunning and psychology.
But you still need to choose the right moment, what about the way ..., everything depends on the situation, it happens that both methods are both good. The main thing is not to confuse them, and not to aggravate the situation, using the wrong method, because then, surely your man will not keep his promise, and the law: "a man promises and does not hold back a promise" will be confirmed again.
For example: a girl can wait for a good moment, when the husband again "fails" the task, and says: "I knew that you can not trust anything" - this will push him to hold the promised word. He will try to take revenge for her because she does not believe in his strength and ability. As a result: he will not want to disappoint her and will begin to help her in all her requests.
On the other hand, a girl can listen to her husband, enter into his position, after he explains to her the reason for not performing the task assigned to him. "Well, of course! ": You say. Yes, we agree, he can answer "I did not want", but this will not be a man's answer at all. In response, you can just say to him: "It's not like a man". He will remember this for sure. If he leads serious arguments and promises to fulfill the promised case later, it means that you managed to conquer him with a simple and calm conversation. But do not forget that the husband could simply forget, so do not immediately shout at him. Just next time you will need to remember, and everything will be fine.
Another law "men promise and do not hold back a promise" may not be understood correctly, because a man simply does not want to upset his soul mate, because he promises, if only not to immediately upset. And the reason for this is love, because he can not see his beloved sad, and that takes a lot more than he can afford. Yes, this man does not justify, but still ... If you have such a case, then, of course, the probability of fulfilling his promise is zero.
You must clearly understand that a person should have freedom of choice, and any promise he gives you under pressure does not promise to be fulfilled.
What you just read is not always feasible, because much still depends on the situation. For example, you should not forget about male friendship. You could assign him a trip to the cafe for a certain time, but he could meet his old and very close friend. No, he will not change you, but he also needs to talk with him a little, to find out how his life goes. And it is right. You would, in its place, do the same, but there is only a small difference between you. Your husband would most likely not have told you a word, and you would be upset because of this that you would start to oppress your husband.
Another thing is to understand this moment: the time that passes between the time of "signing the contract" and its implementation - this is the time when the wife gave her husband a credit of trust, you, during this time, give him a better life. During this period, he feels himself as if he had already fulfilled the promised, you treat him well.
Here the same principle is used as for drugs, first the husband gets "high", and then - "breaking", which will be in both cases.
Actually, it's time to draw a conclusion from the just-read:
A man is not a robot, he does everything not to upset you, but he does not always succeed, and that is a fact. It is not necessary to demand from a man those actions that he will clearly not be able to do, and it's not even in the complexity of this particular task, but in the complexity of the overall task that he needs to perform over a given period of time.
Perhaps, even men do not have enough women's faith in them. They are not enough to get food and sex from you. They want to know exactly and understand that you appreciate them, you should be proud of it. Let him, at least occasionally take a break, and then he will always be happy with your actions.