Search for a person
Very often in subcultures, those young people leave that can not decide their place in life. These guys themselves are also different from other peers, but so far they can not understand what is and how, and how normal it is. That's why young people decide to become part of the subculture, stand out from the crowd, so as not to feel like an outcast. A lot of these young people are creative natures who have not yet realized that creating something unusual is good. In addition, in most of its relatively limited peers do not support their craving to create and create. That's why the guys become informal, because in an informal society there is always a creative beginning and for this no one ever condemns. Usually such creatively creative people, even finding themselves, do not hurry to leave the subculture, because they will simply communicate with such strange, unlike other people. But modernity, many creative natures still understand that the informal world, in fact, is not so independent and independent. And all because the decision to become informal is often young people take not independently and deliberately, but under the influence of outsiders. For example, very often young people go to the subculture in protest.
Protest
Many adolescents do not agree with the methods and methods of their upbringing. Part of these children moves youthful maximalism, some really infringe upon, compelling to obey rules and laws that prevent them from developing. But as it were there, it was protesting, these children decide to become not like everyone else. Moreover, the stronger the pressure on the child, the greater will be the protest. If the mother constantly causes the daughter to behave decently, to be a real lady, to wear white dresses and not forget that women should be fragile, tender and modest, then it will be quite logical, if in the end, a girl who does not want what she sees mom, eventually dressed in all black, hangs on the neck three kilograms of chains of amulets, short-cut and will leave punk. Perhaps she will not like the ideas and ideals of punk, but looking at what her mother requires of her, such a child will try to choose the subculture that most of all will contradict all of my mother's views. And the more stubborn and independent the child, the stronger will be its informality in clothes and behavior.
In such situations, many parents make a very big mistake, starting to press more on their children, scolding them, forbidding them to go out into the street in this way. But the guys do not listen to something and begin to bend their line with even greater heat. In such cases, moms and dads do not understand that children behave this way only to be accepted as they are. It is only the parents who stop stopping the child to live as they want, and not as he wishes, to accept his interests and tastes and all this show-off with informality will very quickly end. But instead of this, parents press more and more, children get angry and they do not want to give in. Every day they are convinced that it makes no sense to leave informal informal get-togethers, because they are understood and supported there.
Support
In an informal society, children very often find that understanding and support, which they do not have in the ordinary. In this there is nothing surprising, because neformalyyavlyayutsya club of interests, people who have something in common. Accordingly, they are much easier to communicate, they always have topics for conversation. All non-formals are united by a struggle with the outside world, which very often treats them prejudicedly, and even hostile. This is why in adolescence, children are so attracted to subcultures. The informal society is much more united and understanding each other. Vtsivilnyh circles are not always possible to see such help and support of all members of the team. Of course, informal people are not so perfect. For example, differently-cultivated people can be at enmity among themselves, organize fights and so on. But such behavior already characterizes rather specific people, and not subculture as a whole. Normal informal people can quite easily coexist with each other in a consistent manner to repulse those who do not want to accept them as they are. That's why, looking at different attitudes, children go to subcultures, wishing to find understanding and support. Especially often, this happens with those who are turned out to be an outcast in their social group (for example, the correct and intelligent child learns in class among the stupid cattle who hates him and laughs at him), and wants to find those people with whom he can communicate peacefully, that in the next moment he will be laughed at or offended. An informal society such cases occur much less often and the reason for this is obviously not the mind or the desire to do something that others are incapable of. That's why children so like subcultures.
Inner beauty
Subcultures often attract those who consider themselves ugly. In the informal world, they will be accepted as they are. Among the informal people you can rarely meet beautiful people. Often in subcultures gather, who does not have a great external beauty, but because of this, he does not want to feel flawed. In an informal society, much more appreciated is shocking, self-expression, creativity, than eyes, hair and face. And to people, especially girls who constantly endured the mockery of others precisely because of their appearance, this attitude becomes like a balm to the soul, because they do not get vaccinated with complexes and do not scoff at them, they accept what they are like for their inner beauty, and not for the right nose and big eyes. Of course, do not assume that among the informal people there are absolutely no nice guys and girls. They are unequivocally, but they do not boast of their beauty and do not try to humiliate and subjugate those whom God has awarded with other positive qualities. By the way, acceptance of a person as he is is probably the main reason why young people go to informal. Simply by time, some of them perebaryvayut their complexes and depart from this, and somehow can not cope with themselves, and therefore remain informal for life.