And then, to the sound of the puncher, who was working in my apartment, right in the next room, I decided to write about the housewives. I wanted to understand what the housewives do all day long? Do you really desperately scratch the stove and tile? And so, how do unemployed housewives spend their time ?
Housewife is a woman who does not sit all day in front of the TV and does not chew sweets, and do not take the example of Dasha Bukin from the series "happy together" and think that all housewives are all like that. You are cruelly mistaken if you think so.
A housewife is a woman on whom the whole house and children are kept, this is the keeper of the hearth. Home improvement is a difficult occupation of ennobling a house, maintaining harmony, coziness, cleanliness and order in it. I do not think that a man could maintain order in the house and simultaneously tell the children about what is right and what is not good, and yet stand at the stove.
A man comes home and begins to reproach his wife for sitting at home, that there is no sense from her, and that she does not bring money into the house. And he does not think, whose works at the stove he devours, filling with a lot of mayonnaise, and he does not think, on whose labors he sees sweet dreams, drooling on a clean sheet. He probably naively believes that children are so clever and brought up from birth all into it.
Constant reproaches that you do not benefit the family are constantly asserting themselves insulting you and showing off that without his work nothing of this would have happened. And is not he wrong ?? Perhaps, if there were not you there would not be a tasty borsch on the table and there would not be clean ironed shirts and socks, and he would not sleep on sheets, smelling pure freshness. After many such accusations and quarrels, you finally understand that you are tired of all this and you collect all the things you take away the children and go live with your mother in the house next door and start keeping cleanliness and order there. The order in the house of the housewife is probably in the blood, and no way it can not be knocked out of it.
I have an aunt, and as you probably already guessed, she is an unemployed housewife. Her daughter plays the violin first-class and takes prizes at all competitions, that is, the first and second, at her home everything is sterile and always tasty food on the table or, at least, on the stove. When she came to visit me earlier, when I worked, and there was no time to clean the house, to my arrival my house turned into a sterile apartment with a delicious smell on the apartment and tasty food on the table.
At that moment, I naively believed like any man that being an unemployed housewife is not difficult and much mind is not needed. Now, sitting at home, I understand the whole difficulty of household management and I realize the complexity of this being.
Our dear men do not appreciate what they have, but they have an invaluable treasure in the person and in the image of us. And if you deprive them of all that is waiting for them at home, namely order and tasty food, I'm sure they will miss all this more than you. Because after a good order it's hard to get used to a bad mess. And do not be naive to believe and believe that he missed you more. Men are cunning creatures, they are prudent, and letting us dust in our eyes, saying that we are cunning and prudent creatures. If you leave him after a little quarrel, and in a week he will stick with you with a huge bouquet of roses and with a diamond ring, and if he is begging on his knees and with tears in his eyes to return to your house, then you know the cruel truth, he lacks order in house, clean sheets and delicious food on the table.
We can all imagine what kind of apartment an unmarried man ... or let's arrange a virtual walk around the apartment of an idle man. Everywhere there are dirty, smelly socks, there are no clean shirts in the closet, and in turn he puts on his work not the washed shirts he already dressed without having ever washed, but only aired on the balcony. And what does he eat ??? If you look in the trash can, we can see a lot of empty packages from instant noodles, and an empty bottle of vodka.
Of course, what else can he drink from grief? You ask, what sorrow? Is it not grief to live in such a pigsty, go to work in clothes not the first freshness, and eat unhealthy food? In my opinion, there is nothing worse. And pastel? Probably, no normal woman would have laid on such a pastel, which was not refueled for centuries, not the bed linen did not change even longer. If you come closer and get a closer look, you can see crumbs of food on the bed and ... oh my God .... fuuuu .... dirty socks!
And if there was an opportunity for a couple of days to turn a man into a woman, and a woman into a man. Leave a man at home with children and with all the domestic problems, how would he manage? I think that it's perfectly clear how a woman with masculine affairs would manage, because for today there are a lot of women who do men's work and they get it even better than men. A good example is the film "Operation Y" by the famous Gaidai, remember in the beginning my grandmother and Shurik, when my grandmother nurse a little girl on one hand, and with the other hand she kneaded the bread dough and at the same time cooked something on the stove, and she also had to work. And she worked as a security guard in the warehouse. Is this women's work? Especially for my grandmother?
And remember, she asks Shurik to replace her in the household while she is at work. Reconsider this film, if you do not remember how Shurik copes with domestic chores, how everything falls from his hands. And how he then runs after his grandmother, that she would save him and save him. I just can not understand one thing! How did he leave a small child of one house ??? So trust the men of your child after this!
Is this film not enough as a vivid example of the fact that men in the household are not fit ?! Is not this film evidence that the man is a complete zero in the kitchen? Of course, this film is enough! And if you think that this is just a film, then tell me, are not the plots of films taken from life? For complete certainty, leave your husband in the kitchen with a boiling pot and with the capricious children of one, and go for a walk with friends or go shopping if you want to risk the order in the house and the health of your children because you do not know what to expect from a man when he does not controls the situation, and he will not be able to control the situation. To make sure, remember the movie "Operation Y" again.
Being a woman is beautiful and very difficult, and being a housewife is even more difficult. And I think that you should not call a housewife unemployed, because her work is a household chores. Cooking, washing, ironing, cleaning and housekeeping and child supervision. And of course, all this takes a whole day, and at the end of the day a woman gets tired not less than if she worked somewhere in the city for some bulbous uncle. That's what a real woman devotes her day to her life-home, husband and children.
A zapplpta it should include not only money from her husband for household needs and cosmetics with clothes, but in advance it is necessary to give respect, affection, tenderness, and the prize should consist of chic bouquets and gifts-surprises and love. Do housewives do not suck that ??? And that men would know the whole complexity of this craft, it is often necessary to leave them in the circle of the domestic vanity of one. Let them understand what it's like to be a housewife, and let them finally start to appreciate the feminine!