There is a popular opinion that only men change who are tired of the monotonous life and are looking for warm souls, understanding and fantastic sex on the side. And for us, women, there is enough happiness to have a husband around and when it appears, we are really sure that it can replace the whole world. After a while we begin to understand that, despite the presence of a beloved husband, next door, we feel the need for attention of other men. We like the interested look of another man's man, from which his heart freezes or starts to fight more often.
The attitude of society to male or female treason has always varied drastically. To the betrayals of the strong half are always condescending, consider them a mere incident, they look at them through their fingers, explaining all the polygamousness of men, and that this is not considered a serious threat to marriage. The foundation of the principles of double morality in the distant past lies, when men for the preservation of the gene pool tried to scatter their seeds through the expanses of the Earth, but were very cautious about female love - fearing to bring up other people's offspring in the family. Even in France in 1804, according to the civil code of Napoleon, because of the unfaithfulness of the wife, the husband could demand a divorce, although his betrayal was not proved until he brought a mistress to his house.
Women do not always want to accept the principles of double morality and refer to history. Even before the era of matriarchy, the teaching of Tantra was born, from which it follows that the woman was the primary, the Cosmos, a clot of energy that needed constant replenishment and therefore could not be satisfied with one partner.
However, the times of matriarchy have long been in the past, and in the modern world, men are concerned about our infidelity. The best minds of mankind have tried for centuries to answer the question, why do women change? On the eternal theme of female infidelity, many classical works were written, "Groza", "Madame Bovary", "Anna Karenina." Men believe that women change because of their windiness, impermanence. We believe that the reasons for the betrayal are based entirely on the other. Women constantly need confirmation of their attractiveness, desires, sex appeal. A stylish outfit, a new manicure, a fashionable bag for a woman is a topic for admiration of those who are next to her. The woman is a romantic creature. She is constantly in search of affection, love and she never has a pleasant relationship. Unlike men, a woman is looking not for a new relationship, but for the best.
Often, having learned about the betrayal of her husband, a woman goes on a breeze with an easy conscience, as if getting permission to do so. So, men, once again, looking at a beautiful woman, remember that around your wife spin donzhuany.
Having learned about the husband's underground love, a woman is treated for resentment and jealousy, agreeing to meet with another man, sometimes the comparison may not be in favor of her husband. I would like to continue to portray women as innocent romantic individuals, but we must admit that often extramarital affairs solve material problems or advance on the career ladder. And what about expensive lover purchases? Lacy underwear, a bottle of perfume with the scent of patchouli so it turns your head, and your husband thinks that you look best in a dress of the times of perestroika, since his salary does not allow him to pamper you. The desire to have a lover in a woman does not arise immediately, but when she is bored and depressed when she does not get enough care and love in marriage.
An ordinary woman, having led a lover, can be so carried away by them that, for the sake of this, she will put her on the line, her family, and destroy her habitual life to the ground. There are a number of positive changes in female adultery: it is an incentive to keep oneself in excellent physical shape, shine in the eyes, increased tone. And all this is so to face a woman. There is an opportunity to look at her husband in a new way. Sometimes his own treason heals his morbid jealousy. Treason, of course, is a great sin, but everything is not mortal.
We must be frank in front of ourselves and in another: unpleasant consequences of betrayal are more than enough, by the force of their impact, they will outweigh the positive ones. Men clearly know what to do in the case of female infidelity: immediately divorce, for them the woman's infidelity is so painful that to forgive, only a few are capable.
If you are going to change your husband, bored you with the ordinary embrace, sports suit with stretched sleeves, cheap cologne, do not rush. Maybe they are not looking for good and good? Remember the bouquet presented to you unexpectedly, the songs that you sang in the summer at the dacha or your picture, found by chance in his purse.
Women's treason is always a cry of despair. You can not help crying, but only do harm. Make another attempt to talk with your favorite whisper - and you, I'm sure, everything will turn out.
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