How a woman can adequately respond to adultery

The very word "treason" means a breach of loyalty to someone or anything. You can change the principles, views, ideals, homeland, friend, spouse. In 99% of cases, physical intimacy with another person is considered treason, and only 1% are friendly hugs and kisses. Today we will talk about how a woman can adequately respond to treason.

At the word "betrayal" people often think of treason in the family. And although betrayal, lies, slander - nouns of the feminine gender, the initiator of betrayal is often a man. Treason of a husband is a very difficult test for the female psyche. A large number of women fall into such an unpleasant situation, and this moment is the most tragic and difficult for them. In this situation, you want to beat the dishes, at the same time cry and laugh hysterically. Although at some point you understand that you can not and do not want to live without this person, that you are one, and can not even imagine living without him, everything turns into hell. And which of these could be the solution? How to swallow an insult, tears and self-pity, while continuing to live together? Or go with your head held high?

The main question: can you really forgive treason? Not every woman can do this. The answer to this question depends on how much you are willing to forgive your loved one. If your husband is not a "reveler", and this was one mistaken betrayal, then you can forgive her. Everyone has some "sins". Only this is the problem: how can you forget all this, how can you force yourself to give up such heavy thoughts and start a new life from scratch?

Usually the first reaction of a woman is to roll up a scandal. There is nothing bad in this, it can even help to relieve tension, but the scandal must be well thought out, so as not to be in an absurd position and not give a chance to your beloved to think that he is absolutely right, having found you a replacement "in the case of an ugly scandal."

Do not go into yourself, find something to do. Want to howl, scream? Voite, yerite, beat the dishes, tear off a couple of his things, but in no case do not hold the pain in yourself, after a certain time it will come out in you in the form of some kind of illness. But try to ensure that in such your condition there are no children present, and, moreover, a guilty spouse.

The cardinal type of betrayal is revenge, according to the "wedge knocked out" principle. But getting moral satisfaction is unlikely to happen, since revenge is not always a solution to the conflict situation. Have you left a little? Spilled out all the rage? Try to pretend that this did not happen to you. Communicate with the traitor only at the most necessary moment, and it is not necessary to go somewhere far away. Go shopping, buy yourself a thing that you could not afford for a long time, but have long dreamed of. Make yourself felt that your soul is warm. Go to friends who have not been seen for so long. Concentrate on your work, just do not overdo it, or you can break. Choose a favorite hobby, for example: a beauty salon, a cinema, at best a tourist trip.

Do not feel sorry for yourself! Work with yourself! Try to understand yourself: what did you do wrong, maybe you paid little attention to it, and devoted much time to life? Or maybe you stopped watching yourself? After all, he needs a woman whom he once was in love with ears, and not a cook and a housekeeper. Try to understand it! Pay more attention to your husband. It is possible that he has many advantages that you have ceased to notice over time, evaluate it and at least sometimes remind him that without him there is no life in your house, without him everything will collapse, everything will fall apart. If you value marriage, try to pay more attention to her husband. Your coldness towards him is now more dangerous than ever, as it can lead to a rupture. Only a woman is given and humiliated, and glorify her man! And how can a woman adequately respond to treason? Perhaps it's better to do just that?

It's time to peer into your soul and try to see what's in it more - love or hate? If the betrayal of a husband happens all the time in your life, then is it worth it to return it back to again and again to suffer humiliation? But if this is the only case, then you need to weigh the pros and cons. If there is more love, then maybe. It is worth analyzing the situation as a whole - to forgive your husband and start everything from a new page. Not so much for the sake of children, but for the sake of well-being and harmony in your family. Therefore, no matter how hard you were, do not remind your husband of his betrayal. After reconciliation with him, do not control his every step, again trust him. Be able to behave with dignity in such, sometimes not simple, circumstances, so that your family does not suffer. In many families, betrayal has happened, happens and will happen, even in the well-off. Now you understand how a woman can adequately respond to treason.

Dear and dear women, happy family life, good love relationships with your husband, understanding your family, longevity, love and be loved, no matter what. Think about everything that happens in your family more often.