Why does not a man want to grow up?

Increasingly, in the conversations of modern women you can hear that "men are not what they used to be" or worse, "a man is a big child". The reasons for such unflattering responses, according to women, lie in the unwillingness of many representatives of the stronger sex to earn money for the family and make serious responsible decisions on their own. And then the question arises: what is really happening with modern men? After all, most male addictions (cars, women, sports) and their behavior have remained the same. It is possible that the answer is a simple statement of fact - they are children. There may be several reasons for this. Unwillingness to grow up

It is not necessary to write off dissatisfaction with a strong gender on male infantilism. For example, unwillingness to deal with household matters (washing dishes, cleaning, etc.) or repair can be explained by ordinary laziness or bachelor past. However, according to the research of sociologists and psychologists, the man's world increasingly begins to resemble a kindergarten, where women are headed, and in which he does not want and is afraid to grow up.

The modern way of life consists of obstacles and falls, overcoming which a person becomes stronger and moves forward. However, this arrangement frightens many members of the stronger sex with their severity, as a result of which it is easier for a modern man to sit on low-paid work and somehow make ends meet, if only the cruel world does not force him to take risks and bear responsibility for his decisions. Such people quickly turn into dreamers, quickly shifting their attention and ambition to another channel, as soon as the former did not suit them. And at this time, the beloved woman takes everything in her hands, knowing full well that besides herself, there is no one else to hope for.

Women themselves are to blame

In the turbulent process of emancipation, women received what they fought for so many years. The desire to make a career, the opportunity to build your life as you like and financial independence led to the fact that there are not many places left for the stronger sex. Moreover, the inability of a man to show leadership in the professional sphere has led to the fact that in the case of his weaknesses, they are no longer making compromises. As a result, ladies receive a gentleman who, being not the master of the situation at work and at home, spends all his energy and salary on his vagaries and hobbies, in which he manifests all his unspent independence.

This has been

It's no secret that many of the qualities of a person's character are determined by the order that reigned in his family. Especially it is noticeable on all known example of "the mamen's son" with which modern women to have to collide even more often. Such kind of young people grow up among single mothers and in the process of growing up they see only a strong woman who seeks to protect them from the surrounding world. While at this stage of personality development, a man should be next to the future man. But this is not the only premise of male infantilism. In modern families, the appearance of a child is increasingly late, and when a child so desires a child, parents tend to surround him with excessive care.

As a result, the woman faces an age-old question - what to do? If such a person has become not at all indifferent to you, then the answer is only one - to educate. Nobody said that it would be easy, but there are many methods by which a wise woman can remedy the situation. In any case, it is worth remembering that nothing lasts forever. Sooner or later each person grows up and time will put everything in its place.