Girls spend a lot of time, energy and money to look like the cover of the magazine. Study forums, sites and fashion magazines to know how to teach yourself and what these men need from a woman. There is only one thought in my head: I want to get married!
But, men are brought up with other attitudes. A man should be able to feed his family and give his wife and children all the best.
In our time, if you ask any guy a question: why do not you want to get married? His answer will be something like this: you need to get an education, get a well-paid job, buy a car and an apartment. In short, every guy dreams of first creating a solid foundation, and only then think about marriage and children.
And, I can say that this attitude of young guys to life is more than commendable. After all, the phrase "with love paradise and in the hut" is completely irrelevant in our time. In Soviet times, the young families were helped by the state - issued apartments, allowances. In our time, democracy is flourishing. Thus, we are responsible for our future and accomplishment. If the family does not have enough money, then, a priori, you will constantly quarrel, swear. And your still very young family is destroyed because of material problems, even without having had time to taste all the charms of living together.
Every man to, whether male or female, dreams of the same thing - happiness. Only girls want everything at once, and men act according to the established plan - first creates a foundation, and only on whether to marry.
Very often, a young man and a girl, having met for a long time, diverge only because he is not ready for marriage, and the girl is already literally propping up to get married. In this situation, the girl thinks only of her desire, she does not even think that the guy's reluctance to marry is due only to the fact that he is afraid of life and material problems to destroy all that is beautiful between them.
Due to the fact that the guy does not want to marry his girlfriend, she decides: either wait until the financial position of the guy to improve, or she wants to part.
If, however, she broke off relations, then we can safely say that the guy was very lucky. After all, you can not say that the girl loved her young man. I would have loved, I would have been with him and helped him, but I did not hit the most painful place.
A man, when he wants a serious relationship, is also not immediately ready to lead her to the crown. He needs to get to know his life partner better, in order to avoid in the future such a moment as to escape from it, where his eyes are looking.
Girls, if a man now does not plan a marriage, understand that over time he will not develop a phobia that no one will marry him.
We girls are too obsessed with getting married. Lovely girls, understand one thing that if your guy really loves you and you feel it; if he is serious; If in his plans for the future you are always present. Then, do not put pressure on him and marry him before choosing.
Think about what you will achieve by such behavior? Lose a loved one and a native person only because you have a sense of selfishness or because of the public opinion that influences you so much?
Just live and enjoy happiness, because the seal in your passport will not make you happier. Throw away, all the stereotypes from the head that you have imposed on society and parents, just live and enjoy life!