The main biological significance of this scream-crying is to prevent separation of the mother and child in the first hours after birth. This is the main reason why the baby cries after giving birth.
For a newborn baby, crying is the only available way that he can tell his mother about his needs before gaining speech. The first cry of the baby is a plea for protection, a reaction of fear and discomfort when it comes to a new, unfamiliar and not very friendly environment.
What the child experiences in the process, and in the first instants after birth, can be compared with the sensations of a person suddenly falling through the ice: loss of orientation, cold, difficulty breathing. Add to this the feeling of squeezing when passing the birth canal, and all this - after 9 months in a familiar warm and cozy "house." That is why, in most modern maternity wards, the practice of applying the baby to the breast immediately after birth (in the event that there is no threat to the health of the baby and mom). The baby calms down, feeling the warmth of her own body, hearing the familiar sounds of my mother's heart and the gentle mother's voice.
An amazing fact: a fairly long time - up to six months after birth, and more - children, often crying without tears. Especially - at night. The child, as it were, continues to sleep - the eyes are closed and there are no tears in them. This is not the crying of pain, or resentment. Simply, with the help of a variety of intonations, a little man tells about some of his needs. A cautious mother gradually begins to distinguish different types of crying. For example, it is noticed that with pain, a child, as a rule, publishes rather sharp, shrill screams with "bays", whereas a hungry cry is more monotonous, begins with whining sounds and grows with time.
The main causes of crying in babies of the first year of life are most often: hunger, pain (the most common problem is intestinal colic and erupting teeth), uncomfortable ambient temperature, skin irritations from wet diapers, fatigue, anger (for example - as an answer to the restriction of freedom movements); in addition, the baby can be just sad and lonely.
In the minds of many parents, to this day, there are various myths about child crying, supposedly during crying a child "develops lungs," or "tempers the character." However, recently, psychologists are inclined to the opinion that in prolonged crying there is nothing useful for the baby. Rather, on the contrary: if the mother does not fit for a long time, the little man experiences increased stress - his fragile peace has been left without protection. This can adversely affect the child's psyche. Moreover - a heartrending cry "to the blue" can harm, even at the physiological level: cause oxygen starvation, or pathological conditions of the respiratory system. Young parents often worry about whether they will spoil their child, reacting to every cry. Specialists say: for children under one year, no "pampering" is out of the question. Rapid response of parents to the needs of the child gives him a sense of security and comfort, which contributes to its harmonious development.
Now you understand why crying to a child after childbirth is normal. And now let's talk about how to calm the crying newborn?
The first is to offer food. "Breast" best calms down the mother's breast. There are many reasons for this: a frequent need for nutrition, and the familiar mother's smell, and the warmth of the mother's body. The modern method of "free" breastfeeding encourages the application of the baby to the breast every time, as soon as he shows concern. If breastfeeding is not possible, mum should feed the baby from the bottle, attaching it and lightly pressing to her body. After the end of feeding, you can give your child a pacifier: children who are on artificial feeding more than others need to satisfy the sucking reflex.
Secondly , you need to make sure that the baby's tender skin does not experience discomfort - a dirty and wet diaper, or a diaper that is lost under the back can cause irritation. In addition, children do not tolerate heat and cold. Therefore, parents should often check whether the clothes and the bed of the child are alright. And see how comfortable the temperature of the room is. Also, you should ensure that the baby is not injured by his own sharp marigolds - from such troubles, the gloves are perfectly saved - "anti-scratch".
The third is to carry out a complex of procedures for eliminating intestinal colic. Currently, pharmacies offer a wide range of drugs that remove colic. But, and, no one has canceled "grandfathering" methods: dill vodichka, putting on the tummy, "dry heat", easy soothing massage - all this can make life easier for a little man and his parents. And, of course - for a mother breastfeeding, a special diet is required, which excludes cabbage, peas, sweet fruits, and other products that promote gassing in the intestines.
The fourth way is old as the world, but its reliability is not questioned: it is necessary to carry the baby on his hands, slightly shaking. You can use "sling" - this becomes especially relevant when the weight of the baby is over five kilograms.
Fifth - sing a lullaby, or just talk to him gently. Affectionate mother's voice - excellent soothing.
The sixth . Many children begin to worry about erupting teeth from the age of three months. Therefore, stock up different teethers and analgesic gel is worth it in advance. Teethers with a cooling effect are very effective.
Seventh . Rarely, but, nevertheless, it happens that none of the above (and many other) ways gives a result. The baby cries for a very long time and is not going to stop. Look closely at his physiological reactions. Perhaps, crying is associated with some serious malaise. In this case, the best thing is to see a doctor.
Eighth , and most importantly - do not get irritated. Always remember that a newborn baby does not cry at all to disturb your sleep or to test your patience for strength. To cry "out of harm" he still simply does not know how. Excited state and negative attitude of parents are easily transferred to the baby. And, in the same way, the calmness and goodwill of the mother is "absorbed" by the child, which contributes to his early falling asleep.