It's no secret that men and women look at the world differently after marriage. For women, the picture is constantly changing, while for men it keeps within one frame. That's why, after the wedding, the couple very often begin to differ in their views on family life. First of all, when answering the question: "Why do the spouses change their attitude to the spouse after weddings? ", I want to note the fact that the girl herself accepts the offer of the hand and the heart unconditionally as a guarantee of eternal love and the solution of all personal problems. But sometimes, the spouse starts to understand that she made a mistake because she just married or married, or did not live up to her expectations. But marriage is a normal process when people marry, give birth to children and live in peace and harmony. But, unfortunately, after marriage, not everyone can stay afloat and quite often, having lived a certain time in a lawful marriage, people can not clearly understand their duties and what they want from life. And even worse, when a woman realizes her mistake with respect to her spouse, in other words, she is disappointed in her choice. Of course, in the event that the relationship of the spouses has changed to each other after the wedding, there are two ways out: a painful divorce, a lover on the side, a boring life with an uncomfortable spouse, or finding the very harmony that will help put everything in its place.
In order for the spouse not to change her attitude towards her companion, it is necessary to understand the precise rules that each couple should follow after the wedding. Very often, many spouses express their opinion that even after the wedding, "no one is obliged to anyone". And this is the most pernicious opinion for any family. If one of the spouses lives by its principle, it is certainly possible to change their attitude to the beloved in a completely non-positive way. After all, cynicism is not the best option for family life. Therefore, relating to this feeling for the spouse, you do not want it yourself, subconsciously change your opinion about it and, at the same time, not for the better. Here and the feeling of disappointment in the chosen one is not far off. Therefore, in order that this does not happen, always try to treat your betrothed with a sense of decency, duty, generosity and patience, and if the faults really start to appear in him, remember that your patience and patience will "peretrut".
In the event that a woman changes her opinion of a man by marrying him, she must necessarily understand herself and find out what exactly she expects from this man. After that, the spouse needs to understand that it may not be the case with the man, but simply with the changes that the engagement ring makes. After all, the wedding changes a lot. A woman just is difficult to realize this and so she thinks that it is in her companion. Just look at your unmarried girlfriends and think about how they are lonely on the abolition of you.
Never listen to the arguments of your parents about the fact that you made a mistake, remember that they can very easily manipulate your opinion. By the way, in most situations it is on their veins that a girl can radically change her opinion about her husband, which can lead to even a divorce. In a word, "live your head".
Another reason that the wife changes her mind about her spouse may be the fact that she begins to look at him with completely different eyes only after the wedding. For example, you have never noticed the simple things that, after printing in a passport, have become a mundane reality. You begin to get annoyed that things and papers from his desk or wardrobe quietly moved to the hall on a decorative table, and in his place in the bed the beloved dog sleeps (for which he does not even scold him), and every morning he chaotic runs around the apartment in one under one) in the search for yesterday's "freshly scattered" socks. And, which is the most irritable, constantly asks you where you left your laptop bag. Than you do not have one more reason to change your opinion about your beloved. What can I say, all men are like that. And it's worth taking into account. Not the fact that the other will not be the same. So just accept it as it is and do not get angry with it because of distraction. By the way, if you are tired of his long stories about work or friends besides, just try to do your own things without paying any attention to him, or suggest your topic for a relaxation of the situation.
So, it's not the wedding of the spouses that changes, but the spouses themselves change their life after it. Just do not bother with its shortcomings and, even more so, listen to the opinions and advice of others. Remember that it does not lead to good at all. But, if you have changed your opinion about your beloved, you can just return it back. Just remember those "pluses" for which you once were, even before the wedding fell in love and it will certainly bring you romantic memories, and help to look at the wife with other eyes. Remember that after marriage, life begins to be divided into two worlds: inside your apartment and outside its walls. So try to keep just in your apartment harmony and understanding.
By the way, experts recommend that if you look at your husband and understand that something is missing from him, think about the child. Then certainly the idea of sending a spouse not all four parties will stop visiting your head. And you can safely start your life from scratch. Remember that you should never make hasty conclusions. After all, happiness does not like those who are in a hurry and do not appreciate what they have. Think about it. Good luck and no disappointments in your personal life!