You have a handsome, intelligent, charming and divorced man! And you do not know whether to grieve over this circumstance or rejoice, because a divorced man can be called special. Why special? Such a man behind his shoulders already "has" a former spouse, a lot of luggage of experience, habits and knowledge. In this connection, the question arises: "Does marriage with a divorced man have a future?". We will tell you about the existing underwater reefs that can arise in communication with such a man, as well as how to behave with a divorced person.
If you are a man really cute, you believe that such a man is better than an idler, you want to take a chance, then act! But before you start acting, find out all the disadvantages and advantages of a relationship with a divorced man.
Benefits
The first advantage is that he is a free man, who also has a valuable experience in serious relationships. Such a man on a new connection is consciously, as he accurately understands and knows what responsibility he takes upon himself.
Often, divorced men idealize absolutely all women who meet him after the divorce, so take advantage of this and become better than his ex-wife. It is also known that divorced men are hypersexual, use this.
disadvantages
Communication with a divorced man according to the statement of psychologists can be correlated with a walk through the mined field - even a small mistake can cause a break. Not every man after the failed first marriage will decide on a second marriage, so do not expect that he will quickly offer his hand and heart. In this case, you will need knowledge and patience, which will help you communicate with him.
A divorced man often compares the current woman to the ex-wife, saying: "But the borsch prepared the Ira in a different way," "And Sveta washed my socks and ironed pants and a shirt," "Tanya always allowed me to sit with friends and drink beer." Be ready for such comparisons, not thinking that he forever cut off his relationship with his ex-wife. According to statistics, a quarter of men after a divorce within 18 months, throwing a new lover, return to the family.
How to behave with a divorced man
Do you want to start a relationship and think about a possible marriage with a divorced man and at the same time be the happiest? Then gather as much information as possible about it. This is considered the main step, since the information will tell you what kind of person it is. But do not go into his soul, dig into his past, asking a bunch of different questions, just chat with his friends.
Learning his friends, you can already learn a lot about your choice. You can also listen to what his friends say about him. Pay attention to how he talks about his ex-wife, how he treats her now, what his relationship with children is, how he communicates with them. Collecting such small details together, you can make a general picture of the chosen one.
So you can act not only if you decide to build a relationship with a divorced man, but in any relationship. However, in this case you are provided with an illustrative example of how this man behaved in a marriage.
Often, women believe that if a man reacts badly about his ex-wife and / or mistreated her and tells you about it directly, then this does not mean anything. This is an erroneous opinion, so do not expect that it will be different with you. Most often the man remains the same.
An important point is the reason for the divorce, whether it was a crisis in the relationship, and he did not or did not want to fight to keep the relationship. If so, then where is the guarantee that faced with a crisis in your relationship, he will fight for your relationship?
There are many different nuances and moments, but in this situation there is a single plus - you have the opportunity to see the behavior of a man before marriage, compare with his behavior after marriage and draw conclusions.
Building relationships, it is important to clearly realize that to win a free man you need to win his heart, but to conquer a divorced man, you need to fight his past, which complicates the whole process.
But if you are sure that this is the person you need, then arm us with our advice and conquer your chosen one!