You were worried when you introduced him to your parents and when you met him. You had incredible sex, which forced your heart to shrink when you remembered about it. If you live together, then you probably remember how you carried things and arranged an apartment. And after a while you notice that there is no passion that he had before, and when he comes home from work or study, he tells you how tired he is, he absorbs in 5 minutes the borsch cooked by you, which you spent half a day, takes off socks and goes to bed without even noticing your new silk dressing gown and not wondering how your day went. He kisses you less and hugs you, and he says that he loves you, that everything is the same as before. You worry, and wind up yourself, that he stopped loving you, you arrange scenes for him, and you either quarrel, or just leave the problem, without having found out anything. If a man stopped paying attention to you, do not worry - most likely, everything is not as bad as you think.
He needs you
He really loves you, once he eats your borsch with pleasure and you are still together. If you disliked the guy, he would simply have left you. About any benefit of speech can not even go-it is typical for women to get what is desired by all possible and impossible ways. If he comes home really tired after work, then your task is not only to feed and satisfy him, but also to listen to him, regret, sympathize and be praised for what he is trying for you and yours relations. Help him undress, put him to bed and push the blanket. Afraid to seem like "Mommy"? Well, in vain, because men - the same children who come home want to feel themselves alone and loved, they also need care and understanding, and who, if not a girlfriend, can understand this their weakness. The reward to you for this will be his true heart, which will assume that you love him in a way that no one else can.
He's just calm
The fact that he no longer gives you gifts but tries to save on your microwave does not mean that he has cooled. He says he loves you, and that's what you want. Just understand that now you have moved away from the "candy-bouquet" period, which marks a simple hobby and love. At this stage of relations, those feelings are formed that will be the basis of your future life together: confidence, trust, interest, closeness, etc. Your relationship has settled, and now he plans your real joint future, finding a rational way for this. For him, now the main thing is not a crazy passion and not a constant declaration of love, he already knows that he loves you, and that this is mutual. And he does not need constant lisping. You also have a contraindication to reproach him, as this can jeopardize his self-confidence and that you really understand him. Would you be pleased if he said that he doubted your feelings? So instead of hysterically demanding from him a nice trinket, it's better to choose a microwave model together, it's much more useful to you than a teddy bear thrown into the far box.
Maybe it's you?
If a man ceases to pay attention to you, look at yourself from the side. Perhaps, recently you have become too capricious, too demanding or a little selfish? Over the relationship you need to work continuously, but what do you invest in them specifically you? Men can not stand when they are "brains". If something does not suit you, try to calmly and competently talk to him, but so that your claims do not turn into a scandal. Tell him that you like mad when he kisses you, and do not blame him for being a scoundrel, he does not love you anymore and does not want to kiss you. Ideal men who do not drink, do not beat, do not smoke, give flowers and diamonds, work, dress, shoe - alas, do not exist. As well as ideal wives. So I repeat - before you blame him, figure it out.
His self-respect
Look closer to him closely. If a man stops paying attention to you, he walks several days in a row, immersed in himself, you should talk to him kindly and find out the reason. Perhaps he has some troubles at work, or with the team, but he himself will not admit it to you, because he is the breadwinner, the head of the family and your stone wall. But can this very wall admit to you that everything is not smooth? He takes his duties very seriously, and when something goes not according to his plan, he gets frustrated, but he can not openly tell you about it - male pride and his own pride do not allow. In addition, once you are together, this is your challenge to society in the person of at least your parents. He promised himself, and to them, even privately, what will provide you and yourself, that you are already independent and mature, and he will be able to feed you banal. Even if you work, in most cases it remains the main source of income, it is he who is responsible for prosperity and position. And you - for the atmosphere and comfort in the house. Explain to him - if you are together, then you have common problems, and that together you will certainly find a way out. This will allow him a little to unwind and consider you not only a cook and a mistress, but also a true friend and ally.
We sometimes forget that keeping a relationship is a hard work, in which to give up and simply refuse. Maybe sometimes, we fall in love with the wrong people, do not trust those and hope for them, it's important to remember that fate is partly in our hands, you just need to be attentive to those who are around.