Relationships that are even before the wedding, are always more vivid, more saturated with romance. At the moment of the influence of such feelings, half in a pair show each other only the best aspects of their personality, while doing things that can be appreciated through the eyes of the lover. But at the same time, absolutely not seeing the shortcomings, both the character and the behavior. And if there are flaws that have been noticed, then they are trying to equate to a minor trifle. But, whatever one may say, it is with these shortcomings of the Ishsyan, in the future, after the wedding, will also have to be reconciled.
Most importantly, in relationships, it is important to emphasize not only the advantages and disadvantages, but the attitude towards you in general, indulgence, respect, are considered with your opinion. Living side by side, side by side, shortcomings and negative qualities of the character are much more vivid. And the positive features gradually change to the norm, and in the end, just do not notice.
It should be noted that lovers do not think with their heads, but with "heart". And all because feelings and emotions cover the mind with a blanket, making you look at the world completely different eyes. But, it should also be noted that love has its positive aspects. The fact is that if it is strong enough, it will become the basis for the emergence of a large and strong feeling, true love, thanks to which you can go through and have any difficulties in life.
There is a general misconception that a person, who is good, warm and cheerful to you, will necessarily become an excellent life satellite. It also happens that when two people are nurturing each other, they are looking in the same direction on things, they have certain life values that are similar to each other. After a certain time they play a wedding, they build a joint family life, but it turns out that everything is not so simple. As a result, it turns out that people are really different, and they are very difficult to live together. If so, then there is no way to build a happy family, no matter how hard you try, the spiritual level must be the same.
It is quite common to have such a quality as "related souls". This phrase appeared for a reason. There are people who still couldstart each other. They were able to share spiritual values, views, and so they were able to build a happy family life. Spiritual intimacy is one of the main concepts that can become a pledge of a strong family and a happy couple.
Finally it happened, the day of your wedding has come, happy, your eyes are shining with joy, and it seems that the whole world is happy with you. First time, after the wedding event, everything will continue at the same level, romance, boundless joy, a new life with a loved one. But, after a while, everything starts to change, you are already covering up the negative aspects of your character. After all, the wedding is over, and you do not need your lover anymore. But this is a big mistake, the witch second half must be able to accept such as he or she is.
On a completely different level displays the joint family life of the relationship of people with each other. And, of course, due to the high rhythm of everyday life, there is no time for romance. A new level of relations implies the existence of understanding, respect for each other, the ability to accept a person as he really is. After all, love goes away, sincere feelings remain forever.