You will be surprised, but most women would happily do without penetrating sex, replacing it with oral. So to say, "love me in French." But many deprive themselves and their partner of such pleasure only because they do not know how to do it "right". Indeed, oral sex is not as simple as it might seem. But, believe me, it's not too difficult. At least, it's worth it to learn it. So learn! This article is, in fact, a short guide to oral sex. It's a sin not to use.
If a person likes to give and receive oral sex, then one can argue that he is more sensual, caring and inventive in bed. And, on the contrary, a person who is slightly alarmed by the idea of oral sex, is usually unlikely to greatly please you and in ordinary sex.
If you want to get several directions, or you need to convince a partner to be a little more attentive to you in bed, or just want to make sure that you are doing everything right - check out our brief guide to oral sex.
Oral sex: speed and position.
If you want to get the most amazing feeling in your life, and your man is passive, then it's time to take the initiative and give him a helping hand.
Here are our tips on what kind of treatment you deserve.
Ask him to slow down.
The mistake of many men - immediately "dive" directly to your genital area. Tell him to first try to slowly kiss and lick other parts of the body, awakening your expectation and excitement. Point him at the part of your body that touches you into ecstasy. For example, nipples, inner thighs, backs, necks ... and you are in heaven.
Change the position.
He should not kneel between your legs to get better results. One known method of cunnilingus is called "Kivin's method" - this is when a man is kneeling at right angles to the body and head of a woman lying on his hip.
Besides, why not try a man to lie on the bed, and you will rise above him from above, facing the wall, so that you had something to lean on. This means that you can control the pressure, rise, if it is too strong or, conversely, drop lower, if you want "hot".
Be braver.
Surprise him.
Most men do not know the best way to use their language on you, so why not show it to them? Take his hand and use his own tongue in his palm. He will probably be surprised, but he will definitely like the feeling. You can show how you would like him to caress you, at what speed, with what pressure. He will certainly appreciate your ingenuity and courage.
Speak directly about your desires.
If he is able to hear you, then tell the man what you want. Use clear, simple type instructions, "slower", "stronger", "faster".
Remember, however, that he most likely will not be able to hear you very well, so the language of your body is even more important. Approach it if you want to feel it better or move away if it happens too quickly or too grossly.
Show him the right place.
If he really caresses you in the wrong place - make a V sign from your fingers and show him where he should put the tongue. Pull out your fingers and try to work the language between them first.
Fundamentals of blowjob.
Some women are nervous about blowjob, considering it uncomfortable, but fairly simple occupation. What's so difficult - just put his penis in his mouth and suck and lick. Obviously, however, this is not as primitive and simple as it seems. There are several ways to blowjob, different techniques and positions, their own specific rules. Let's face it, because we do not know much about it? But in vain. It is the ability to make a delicious blowjob can make you a real goddess in bed.
Moisten your mouth.
The more moisture there is in the mouth, the more it will enjoy. Try to collect more saliva in your mouth, before you place there his penis. The more lubricant - the more experience. You may want to keep some drink in your hand if you are worried that you will get dry mouth.
Change position.
Just as his position can change when he is on you, the same applies to you on it. You can let him lie on the bed and kneel over it, but there are other positions that can work better.
The key to more voluptuous oral sex is the absolute freedom of your hands. So why not sit on a chair or on the edge of the bed and make him stand in front of you? It also allows you to control how deeply it plunges into you.
In addition, you can try a classic pose: kneel before the man. Some women find this a bit humiliating, but it again allows you to use both hands and make it all more enjoyable for him.
Do not worry about the length.
No matter how long your male's organ is. After all, the main sensitive area is at its very tip. The further to the base of the penis - the feeling is weaker. So it is worth concentrating on its very "top", an area several centimeters long.
Slowly start your tongue in a circular motion around the tip of his penis, and then close the lips around it and sharply "roll" to the bottom. Caution! Do not hurt him with your teeth!
Now lightly suck it and sometimes tick the tip itself again and again, moving up and down.
If you then grab your penis by hand and start driving it up and down - this will enhance the sensation at times.
Use your hand correctly.
Maintain his penis in a state of "standing" with his hands, not with his mouth. Then while you use your mouth, gently stroke his testicles, which should activate his sensations 10 times. And believe me, when this happens - you will know about it.
And do not just touch his testicles, but try with your fingers of the free hand to gently caress any of his erogenous zones. He will appreciate your skill and will not remain in debt.
Feel the rhythm.
The closer he gets to orgasm, the faster you can move, but make sure that you do not accelerate too soon, and keep a good rhythm.
The trick is to speed up the movement of the hand, not your mouth, because it will not hurt your neck, if it sucks, it becomes a little more difficult.
If you do not want oral sex .
Most often, a woman does not want to engage in oral sex for a reason. There is always a reason. So, there is a way to eliminate it.
Reason: it smells.
If you do not like the smell, then why do not you take a shower together? Under the streams of water you will feel better, it will be easier for you to caress it "there", not feeling any smells. Try, you both should like.
Reason: it's hard for me to breathe.
The penis in this case is perceived by you, like a gag. And this is to some extent true. But it's all possible and necessary to control - the depth of the introduction, and speed, and pose. With the use of one of the positions proposed above, you should be able to stop it at any time. If he tries to keep his hand on your head and push you, stop immediately and tell him not to. If you have a really close relationship with a man - he will understand and support you.
Reason: I do not want to "swallow" this.
Well, it is not necessary! If this really disgusts, just pop the penis out of your mouth before an "eruption" occurs. You can ask your partner to tell you out loud when he is ready. A man will never miss this moment.
In the end, you can try to swallow once and see what it is. It's only a teaspoon of liquid. All this can not be as bad as you thought.