Is it so? Each of them, young or "Balzac's age", thin or pampushka, businesswoman and housewife has a certain set of desires and requirements for men. And regardless of how it looks and what it does, this set has many identical points.
No attempt to satisfy the entire list of women's "want" by any man. At best, he will overcome the greater half. And why? It's simple! Women's desires can be so contradictory that it is only real wizards that can fulfill them. Even realizing this, the weak half of humanity will not give up its dreams, but blame the strong half for lack of attention and love. Even if a man in love with the ears will indulge all the desires of his chosen one, this will not suit his chosen one. His beloved will still find cause for discontent and will be blamed for weakness and podkabluchnichestve. The theme of female inconsistency is worthy of the greatest and most deserved works of the most famous authors, but the mystery of women's souls is still unsolved not only for men, but for women themselves.
And again the question arises: "Why?"
You can try to find the answer to it in history. For many centuries, a woman did not do her own well-being. These duties lay first with her parents, then with husbands. Parents did not expect any help from their daughters in their old age and looked for beneficial parties for them. Responsibilities for caring for elderly parents were shifted to sons. Women were only an "appendage", a complement to a man. Remember at least the very word "Married." The parents of the "extradition" girl tried to quickly attach the daughter, giving her in marriage and to take some advantage in the event that the groom has a fair share of wealth or a high position in society. Ladies of those times had nothing against this approach. With a decent choice, they received certain material and social benefits. But did they get love? Not everyone paid attention to this attribute of family life.
With the passage of time, the situation of women in the family and relations between spouses changed. Women, acquiring social independence, the opportunity to earn well, began to demand other relationships in the family. They needed love and respect. These feelings have become fundamental when choosing marriage partners and are still valued above other arguments and reasons for marriage. Men and women believe this, but they treat him differently. Many women still have the ancient principle slipping in the subconscious: "Men are the main means of solving women's problems." And often they sound phrases like "dear, do you really love me?" Yes? Perfectly! Then do / buy / organize / build and ... "What else might the weak of the strong need?
Of course, the creation of a family. Remember about the original purpose of a woman? Quite right, the wife is the keeper of a cozy home. And no matter how many ladies talk about free relationships and civil marriages, most of them dream of a family, of a loving husband and children. When it comes to family and children, the next will is the health of children, family members and relatives. After all, there is no worse grief than illness or death of native people. No wonder they say: "It would be health, everything else can be bought."
What does a woman want from a man besides love, if she already has a happy family, a loving husband and healthy children? Of course, not a single woman will limit herself to this set. The next desire is prosperity. Women want material prosperity! The truth in this desire, each of them invests their needs. One will need a chic mansion with a view of the sea, an expensive car in the garage, gold and diamonds, another will be enough for your favorite and interesting work, a small cozy apartment, comfort, the necessary set of clothes in the closet and equipment in the kitchen. Such different needs and desires can be combined by a common formulation - in nothing and never deny yourself. None, even the most successful woman will not give up material prosperity from a beloved man, even if she does not admit it out loud.
The next desire that every woman conceals in herself is the recognition by men of her attractiveness. And what's wrong with that? Attraction was appreciated in antiquity and will be appreciated in the future. At contemporaries of opportunities to be a beauty much more than before. At each corner there were hairdressing salons, beauty salons and plastic surgery clinics. If a man can not make himself a beloved creative hairstyle, magnificent make-up, rid of wrinkles and excess fat, then let him at least not prevent others from doing it.
It would seem, what other desires can a healthy and beautiful woman, wife and mother have? So is not present. There are new ones that necessarily require the participation of men. The modern lady wants self-realization and independence. So you want to have an interesting and beloved work and recognition on it. Therefore, there is one more task for the loving man - to help the lady of her heart to realize herself, to achieve the goals set and to have confidence in the future.
Do not alien to contemporaries and the usual desire: to receive flowers and gifts, to hear raptures and complementations in their address, to be weak alongside a strong companion, sentimental and romantic. No matter how independent and independent women are, they are still pleased to feel the care of loving men.
Of course, women can have a million desires, but the most important of them is a loving man, and the rest she will quietly and imperceptibly create herself (even if she does it with male hands) ...