Modern sexual life has reached a level where the desire to receive and enjoy is not only not stopped, but encouraged, of course, subject to the adherence of doctors and minimal notions of propriety. That is why the very fact of a regular sexual life is enveloped in a lot of myths. Especially a lot of such false stories aimed at the reasons for the prohibition of intimate relationships.
So let's figure out when a girl is not allowed to have sex, and when you can make an exception.
Myth first.
Previously, about intimate communication during critical days and speech could not go. Everything is explained by the physiological feature of the female body. During menstruation, the cervix is slightly in the slightly open state, so during sexual intercourse the risk of microorganisms penetrating and developing infections in the uterine cavity increases. Also, the female body is less resistant to infections during this period, and therefore the probability that after sexual intercourse there may be inflammation in the genitals is increased.
Modern doctors have a more loyal attitude towards sexual intercourse during menstruation. The girl is contraindicated only not using contraception, as this will reduce the risk of getting infections, as well as prevent unwanted pregnancy.
The myth that during menstruation can not become pregnant is a myth. It is possible to become pregnant, and this is due to the fact that spermatozoa that have fallen into the womb retain their mobility for a week.
Also in some cases, sex on critical days is recommended, as it helps to relieve pain, and has a beneficial effect on a woman's mental state. The only thing that can stop you is the aesthetic side of the question, but if it does not bother anyone - then act boldly.
Myth of the second.
Of course, this is not exactly a myth, just a rule that has its exceptions. Usually it is contraindicated to have sex, and not only to girls during the treatment of sexually transmitted diseases. These include: fungal diseases, chlamydia, mycoplasmosis, ureaplasmosis, gardnerellez and others.
Of course, there is a "but". As they say, in such cases: «when it is impossible, but very much it would be desirable - that necessarily it is necessary». The main thing to do everything wisely. The use of a condom is mandatory, otherwise you will knowingly infect your partner's infection. Do not forget that such diseases are transmitted with all variations of the sexual act, including anal and oral sex. So, when choosing the method of satisfaction, first of all think about security.
Myth three.
Many naively believe that sex during pregnancy is strictly prohibited. Maybe sometime it was. But today for young couples, pregnancy becomes only an occasion to experiment, and to show imagination. Exceptional cases are the emergence of a threat during pregnancy, and the prohibition of a doctor, then lovers have to moderate their ardor and suffer.
Similarly, patience will be needed if the girl underwent an operation in the pelvic area, or the reproductive organs were affected. The term of abstinence is usually spoken by the doctors themselves, but on average it is 4 weeks. Of course, do not expect a swift return to an active sexual life, because in the beginning girls are contraindicated in postures that imply a lot of physical activity, deep penetration, just have sex at a moderate pace and focus on your feelings.
A special case is such surgical intervention as abortion. After the abortion, the uterus is in a state of laceration, which in itself excludes the possibility of sexual intercourse. A psychological factor will also play a minor role.
But, after a certain period of time, the partners return to the normal rhythm of the intimate life and do not experience any discomfort.
So here you can include the topic of sex after giving birth. Usually, after the birth of a child about sex, you can forget for a period of at least 6 weeks. This is easily explained by the fact that during the birth, natural disorders of the uterus and birth canals are formed, and the restoration process requires no time. It is also worth remembering the probability of infection.
At the end of this period, you will be able to enjoy each other again, but do not forget about contraception, unless, of course, your children are not included in the plans.
Diversity.
The variety of sexual games, and the opportunity to please each other not only in the usual way, makes sex even more interesting. Modern youth is pleased to experiment, and does not refuse oral and anal sex.
When using oral caresses for girls, a contraindication can only be the presence of a partner or herself, any sexual infection, or just a lack of confidence in it. In such cases, it is better to wait until after the course of treatment.
Anal sex for a girl becomes more traumatic than a pleasure. According to statistics, only a small number of women can physiologically experience pleasant sensations, in other cases, such sex is more fraught with consequences. This is the fact that the area of the female body, which is used for anal sex, is content with the tender and easily traumatized, and accordingly there is the possibility of getting and developing the infection, which will not have very pleasant consequences.
Sex in all its manifestations is not something out of the ordinary, it's another part of our life. Deliver each other's pleasure and receive it aspire to everything. It is to this fact that we should be grateful for our birth. But do not forget to appreciate and protect your health, and then unpleasant situations will be ruled out.