In fact, the concept of the time that is needed for both partners to be satisfied is very individual. Talking about sex, women often focus on long caresses, massages. In extreme cases, the topic may be interesting fast sex in a non-standard place.
Men have a different idea of sex: they do not care about the duration, the emphasis is on the frequency of sexual relations.
According to experts, good sex is considered when both partners are satisfied in full.
Remember that men and women are excited by different factors. We need different erotic experiences to reach the peak of pleasure. Most men are excited very quickly - they just look at the woman's neckline or bare leg. In this case, a man can be compared to a fire that quickly lights up and also goes off quickly.
And to excite a woman needs more time. They do not just look at the naked body. A woman can be compared to water. In order for a wave to appear, it must be smoothly shaken. And the woman calms down too slowly.
In order for both partners to reach the highest satisfaction in the sexual game, there must be mutual concern for each other.
The speed of sex: the attitude of women
A woman depends on emotions. Emotions are also subject to the sexual sphere. A woman desires a man only if she is in love or loves him. And the degree of excitation, and its presence in general, depends on the feelings that a woman feels for a partner.
For example, if you are angry with your man or you have other negative emotions, then the excitement you will experience when anger is replaced by mercy. According to scientific data, 46% of women consider the best elements in a relationship - this is a feeling of unity and intimacy with their men, as well as trust. And for true satisfaction in sex, a woman must feel that she is loved, desired, protected.
However, even in cases where a woman does not want to enter into intimacy, it can be corrected. This requires patience, because a woman needs an average of 20-30 minutes of tenderness and affection, so that sexual desire arose. To do this, it is necessary that all senses are excited: touch, smell, sight.
That's why foreplay is important. Basically due to the stimulation of the clitoris during the preliminary caress the woman in 70% of cases can reach orgasm. And approximately 30% of women are able to experience orgasm directly during sexual intercourse.
The sad thing is that many men are eager to get down to business right away, not caring about the satisfaction of the partner. In this case, it's worth telling the man about the importance of foreplay. In addition, the game "who can last longer" can bring diversity to your intimate life. A man must caress a woman until she herself asks for continuation.
At conception of the child the prelude is best to stretch as long as possible. The more you are excited, the more active will be his nervous activity. According to the results of scientific research, the amount of sperm depends on the degree of arousal of a man. The more agitation, the more sperm, which increases the likelihood of fertilization. Female orgasm also increases the likelihood of pregnancy, because at this point the uterus as it sucks the sperm deep inside.
Cycle and libido
Libido is a sexual arousal in a woman. And it depends on hormones. Libido is weakened or strengthened depending on the phase of the menstrual cycle.
Strengthening of sexual desire occurs a few days before and during ovulation. Then the excitation is much faster. During this period, the woman is best prepared for fertilization, getting pregnant easier, it's easier to reach orgasm. Orgasm during this period is much stronger than on other days. These phases can be used for special pleasure with your beloved man.
After ovulation, sexual desire decreases. At the end of the phase, before menstruation, sex can be even disgusting to a woman. But in this case it is better to have sex, because a hormone is produced that helps to cope with premenstrual syndrome.
The speed of sex: the ratio of men
To achieve orgasm, a man is 2-3 minutes. Sexual desire in men arises much more often than a woman, and for this he does not need to love her. And also a man does not need a sense of security and intimacy.
Sexual desire for a man is almost always present, even with fatigue or irritation. The quarrel is also not a hindrance to desire. However, remember that stress and severe fatigue negatively affects the potency. Emotions are almost irrelevant for men in sexual life, since men do not associate sex and emotions like women.
To stimulate a man, visual stimuli are needed. If you want to seduce a man, then it's enough to start erotic undressing. Men love eyes, so it is advisable to leave the light with intimacy and not be shy of your body. They also reach orgasm with every sexual act, for this reason they like fast sex.
A man can do without preliminary caresses, but they like him too. And even more, he is excited by your reaction to his actions. Do not worry because you need more excitement for excitement, because it inflames desire even more!
Some men are afraid of strong overexcitation, so as not to end prematurely. Therefore, they miss the stage of preliminary caresses. In this case, a woman can caress a man until he cums. He'll need to rest for a few minutes. During this time a man can caress a partner. Then both will be ready for intimacy, the man will not have a lot of stress. This prolongs the sexual intercourse and enables the woman to have fun.