In fact, it is difficult to understand if you are ready to give up everything for the sake of love. This can be realized only when we are really put before a choice for the sake of love.
Many devote love songs and poems. But not many are ready to do anything for this feeling. We do a variety of things for the sake of our relationship. But sometimes it seems that we go for everything for the sake of love, but, in fact, do little things. For love, there are few things that seem great. For example, someone thinks that quitting smoking for a loved one is a feat. In fact, you are ready for an ordinary trifle. This does not mean anything for true love. Of course, you will get it, but, in the global sense, it's really very petty.
Someone started wars for the sake of a loved one. Such a famous work as the "Iliad" is an excellent confirmation. But, on the other hand, is it right. Is it possible to call such an act serious and expedient? Many guys try to make something very unusual and difficult for the girls, quit everything and change a lot. And, often, completely do not understand why girls never appreciate it? In fact, men just sometimes can not distinguish a truly knightly act from the usual boyish recklessness, which can lead to far from iridescent consequences.
But let's think again that we can quit for the sake of love. The first thing that comes to mind is, of course, the family. Naturally, what can you think about, except about what is the most close and dear. In this case, you need to think whether it is worth going to such an act for the sake of the family. There are very different situations. For example, when a family is happy and a girl, for example, falls in love with a young man from another city or state, for which she must leave the family, then in her deed, in fact, there is nothing terrible. Everyone knows that the chicks one day necessarily fly away from the nest. It will be understood by any normal parents. Therefore, in such a situation, to leave a family for a loved one can and should be done. Quite another case, when the family is unsuccessful and need help. In a similar situation, the question of leaving and leaving everything is very ambiguous. Most likely, in this situation, a person for whom everything is abandoned, you need to think about whether to put your beloved girl in such a situation. Perhaps it's better to stay where she lives, and try to help. After all, when we love, it does not matter where we are. Just need to find a way to get stronger in this place and not feel any discomfort. Still, throwing people who need us too much is far from the right decision and we need to think a hundred times before accepting it.
What else can be called a case where we throw everything for love? Probably, these situations are those when we need to choose between past love and the present. It is in these cases that we have to make truly decisive decisions. In such situations it is necessary, first of all, to decide who exactly is the most beloved and expensive. After all, there are cases when we, really, are guided only by passion. When this happens, many people often suffer from decisions taken. Therefore, before you choose someone, you need to understand whether this person is really one who possesses all the qualities that are necessary in order to live happily happily. If a woman sees that in some way a guy does not suit her, you do not need to close your eyes and rush into the pool with your head. For the sake of love, you can do crazy things. But do not try to justify someone else's behavior and find an excuse to forgive. Even if someone asks for everything to do for him, you do not need to pay attention only to words. It must be remembered that people must prove what they say by their actions. If we do not see this, then it is necessary to think about the seriousness of the demands of the young man. In fact, even if it seems that you are doing far from all the most important for someone, it may turn out that it was these actions that led to the fact that you did not achieve something or did not get what you wanted.
In fact, trying to give up and do everything for a loved one is very commendable. But, first of all, you need to be sure that this is really necessary for a person and he deserves such cardinal changes in life. Many women are able to rush into the pool with their heads, but not many are able to survive the consequences if their deed was unnecessary and no one appreciated it.
Therefore, to throw everything and be ready for any changes in life is necessary only for the sake of the one who really deserves it. Naturally, these merits are determined not by material benefits. Simply, you need to be sure that a person will never give up and leave in a difficult situation. And, of course, you need to know what he really loves sincerely.
Many of us once threw everything for love. Leave friends, work, family. And often people later very much regretted their actions. This led to disappointment, and sometimes to hatred of the opposite sex. Therefore, you must always remember that before you radically change your life, you need to make sure that it is necessary. In such situations, one should never be guided only by emotions. It is better to listen to the voice of reason and trusted people who will only tell the truth. If you do this, then all decisions will be right and you will never regret what you did for the sake of love. They completely upside down and change our lives. The main thing is that these changes are only for the better.