Today we will talk about the reasons for the loneliness of the most diverse women. Why this happens and how to rid itself of this, if, of course, you yourself want it.
Many, many women will find a lot of advantages in favor of their lonely state. A lot of people will say about themselves: "I'm beautiful and alone " or "I'm proud and lonely," and this will be really spoken with ecstasy and pride. But, believe me, they all dream in their hearts to have a loved one who will help them feel needed and loved.
Excuses and excuses.
1. Freedom of action. No responsibility. You do not have to adjust to anyone, prepare food and put things in order. You do not have to get out and arrange things the way they like. Dressing and acting can be done as you want without looking at someone, and in general - do what you want.
2. You can always count on the attention and pity from friends, because you are so lonely and you so lack of male attention.
3. You have already gone through the pain of unsuccessful relationships that broke your heart, and you do not want a repetition of the situation - endless series is much better.
5. Why contact one person, if there are so many men around, evaluate and choose each day a new one.
6. You do not have time. You are very busy and lead a busy life. If a man appears, he will break all your plans. You are successful without it.
7. And most importantly - you and no one will ever forbid you to flirt with other men, wear mini, go to clubs and lead a lifestyle as you like and want to you. And still do not strain, look at home well, do not have to think what to give him, do not have to cook deliciously and puzzle over how to diversify sex life. And yet - there will be no betrayal, while you are alone, and, hence, no pain and suffering.
8. And, of course, you can always regret yourself: in fact you are ugly, with a thick booty and small chest, old, poor, uninteresting and with children. It's not meant to be. And if not destiny - why change and try to change yourself? Pity yourself - it is much easier and more pleasant.
Here are the main excuses and excuses. Many justify themselves with the help of them.
What are the reasons for the loneliness of the most diverse women?
1. Behavior. Look, which of these models suits, sadly, you?
- Assol. You are a poor, suffering girl, waiting for the perfect prince on a white horse. In this image, you make 2 typical mistakes: you have written on your forehead: "I'm looking for a husband". From such women, men run, no matter what. And the second: when you, finally, feel - that's it, happiness, and then: Nuu ... somehow he does not look very much like the second half - he has flaws, there is no mutual understanding with a half-word and in general he does not treat you like to his princess. In general, there are no concessions from your side, and you, explaining your parting by the fact that "again not destiny" again become lonely.
- Super woman. Excellent, you are active, confident, fully satisfied with your career and your financial situation. Perfectly look and independent, really like men and ... alone. And all because a man is afraid to get lost on the background of such confidence and independence, he is afraid that he will not match the level of such a "star". If you continue to compete with men in masculinity, etc. - You risk being left alone forever.
- Sufferer. You had an affair or marriage that broke your heart. Nothing better to wait and your personal life is over. You torment yourself with memories, looking at your old photos. Imagine that now he is with another and how he caresses her. Hmm ... A new men can not be, because they will never be compared with the former. In general, you can further regret yourself, eating up grief and loneliness with chocolate.
2. The second reason for your loneliness is a banal fear. Fear of betrayal, betrayal, and you are sure beforehand that this will certainly happen to you. Fear of family life - but suddenly you can not, because this is such a responsibility, and suddenly you will not justify the hopes and desires of the husband in some domestic or sexual things.
3. They do not want to get acquainted with me. And in fact and the truth - absolutely nobody approaches and offers a hand and heart. Especially handsome. And you travel the same route: house-work-house. Indeed, the sense of going somewhere, especially at parties in clubs, etc. no one seriously gets acquainted, especially in museums.
4. Laziness. Yes. Exactly. Many women are just lazy somewhere trivial to go out or meet friends. It's better to lie on the couch at home.
In short, the cause of loneliness in you is in your head. All the guys goats? Such you will come across. Do you like to feel sorry for yourself and think that you are already over thirty, and you do not have a prince? Hence, and will not. Well, you like to think about it instead of acting - stay alone.
How to overcome loneliness?
Exclude from your life internet and TV. Choose people. Anywhere. Remember how long ago you were not in museums, on an inset, a presentation, a theater, a concert, a movie, etc.? In fact, it's very sad. And you definitely have a company - friends, colleagues or virtual friends.
Register for courses: language, driving, dancing, but at least climbing! Go to the resort and in any case do not take the same lonely girlfriend - it will be easier for you to get acquainted when you are alone. Plus, in one way or another, you will have to step up to orient yourself in a strange city or hotel, not to sit in the evenings at the hotel. In general, at the resort you all benefit! Don `t doubt. Be not afraid to show the interest in dialogue with the man, but do not pass to obsession. Be positive and smile.
Plus, analyze yourself. What in you scares off potential cavaliers? Look carefully at everything: appearance, behavior, manner of dress, habits, etc. It may well be that you need to change something in yourself - and everything will go much more fun.