After some unexpected revelations of your man, you somehow did not want to go to bed with him. Too contradictory feelings are now a favorite ... And what to do: can it be faster to run, where does the eyes look? Or still try to calm down and begin to slowly get used to his "terrible secret"? Honesty and openness in relations - this, of course, is wonderful. But sometimes the truth can only hurt. What are they - frank confessions, which should be avoided? Let's try to figure this out together.
SITUATION 1. Stormy past.
Having become weak after your caresses, the darling declares: "All the same, women like me more than men." You laugh: "Did you check?" And you hear: "Actually it was once ..." You have a lot of questions: what if he plans to return to same-sex love? What if he's having sex with you through strength? ..
ABOUT WHAT DOES THIS SAY? If the boyfriend enjoys you in bed, you do not have to worry that he will run from you to the first cute young man you meet. Many people - 34% - are bisexual. About 22% of boys in the teenage period receive a homosexual experience. After all, hormones are raging, and girls at that time - creatures that are incomprehensible and inaccessible ... Homosexual experience is a variant of the norm. The main thing is that your beloved should not ask you to grow a mustache and do not call Vasya at the most tender moments.
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO? Understand your feelings. Do you need this man? Communicate with your loved one and find out what he thinks about his past experiments now. Try to become more tolerant.
SITUATION 2. How impolite!
His squeezed moans are not the sounds of passion! It hurts when you exercise in oral caresses. Or even worse: it irritates your cries during orgasm, your scent is unpleasant.
ABOUT WHAT DOES THIS SAY? If a man is repelled by natural reactions and smells of your body, then, apparently, the romance is over. The natural attraction is based on them. But if it hurts from your caresses and he is still with you - this is a good sign.
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO? Do not sulk, but take him as a mentor. Start practical classes on "How to become an ideal lover." Let him show what touches are pleasant to him, and which are not.
SITUATION 3. A bold idea!
It turns out that your young man is not against group sex. And now you are trembling with the thought that one day he will bring all your colleagues from work to your bed at once. Or he admitted that he loves hard sex with handcuffs, palpable slaps and bites most of all. And dreams of doing all of the above with you. I wonder if it's his pathology?
ABOUT WHAT DOES THIS SAY? People have different preferences. There are those who need to whip up their desire with the help of a collective action. In youth, group experience can simply be a tribute to fashion. Others practice sex through pain or submission. Your boyfriend is not a pervert until he forces you.
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO? Discuss with your loved ones all your "can" and "not" associated with sex. If you dislike the idea of being close with several people, tell me. Try what he practices. Suddenly you will like it when they bite you in the shoulders? The main thing is to stop in time if you want to quit the game.
SITUATION 4. Was there a doctor?
When he urged you to have sex without a condom, he swore that he had a folder in his desk with excellent test results. And now I let out a spill that I never went to see a doctor. What for? He is sure that he is healthy.
ABOUT WHAT DOES THIS SAY? Is he too lazy to take tests for your peace of mind? Most of all he loves himself.
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO? To hand over analyzes. And think: do you need a character who thinks only of himself?