Excitement, excitement, trembling, fear, passion, doubt - when will you still experience a set of such emotions as not before having sex with a new man? You both waited for this, prepared, nurtured the desire and the connection can end not in the way you wanted because of your experiences, but also because of possible mistakes. How to make the first sex enjoyable for both of you?
The rules of the first sexaso with his new partner
For a good first sex, the most important thing is the right time, when both are ready and want to get closer to each other, to translate your relationship to the next level. When a man is too persistent, and a woman is not sure before the end and has agreed to intimacy only because of the fear of losing a partner, then she can hardly enjoy. For this reason, let always the solution be zazhenshchina, because the confidence in the desire, the willingness of the girl is a successful first sexual relationship.
1. It is necessary to smile at the embarrassment
Confusions are always inevitable. For example, they banged their foreheads, crunched the knees and so on. Do not try to behave as if nothing had happened, trying to hush up this awkward moment. Smile and kiss your partner. Play random confusion and continue to do what you stopped. They do not associate the awkwardness, but the embarrassed attitude towards them, which enslaves the partners.
2. Experiments of better times are best left
The best times should not be postponed for a long time, but it is also not necessary to hurry their offensive. Sexual relations in bright light, "difficult" and unusual places, specific accessories - all this requires a certain level of intimacy with Spartner and trust in each other. Many agree to various experiments only to not be zakomleksovannoy "simpleton".
You are worried that you, for example, have a non-ideal breast, cellulite and he is also worried about his own shortcomings. It's natural when you want a pleasant impression to produce on each other. For example, a bright light can prevent you from showing yourself as a wonderful lover, and the second sex can not be. When everything happens gradually, you will reach the present to various kinds of experiments and liberties.
3. Talk to each other more
The experience of different pairs shows that the emotions experienced during the first sex (and not only) are forgotten with time. Only you remember that you felt good. However, when the memory remains phrases, intonations, words, then they will be pulled by a series of exciting and pleasant emotions, which you at that moment you experienced.
4. Tell the partner how you like
During the first sex, no one has a field map, and that's why sexbolshe resembles reconnaissance. Such uncertainty of confidence neither to you, nor to the partner does not attach. Therefore, it's time to put some landmarks, marks on the "map" of him and your bodies. Tell me what's best for him to make you feel good. Watch also for his reaction, so that the erogenous zones of his body for you do not remain a mystery.
5. You should not do everything at once
Of course, you want to impress on each other, to show how far you have gone in studying carnal love, or you want to repeat the plot of a scanned film with an intimate content. However, with the first sex is not the time to measure their knowledge, and time to just love each other.
Various complex sexual postures, or a constant change of theirmogut the first sex turn into a physical exercise. This all can embarrass the man, because in this activity, men mostly think not about what she knows, but about where she learned it. Also, it is exhausting, because in sex it is necessary to receive pleasure, and also to deliver it to a partner, but not to think how your reputation at any cost should not be dropped.
6. Do not imitate
This question is very delicate, because with different sounds you can top-up your partner's self-esteem, excite him more. However, there is another side: when you do not like what the partner is doing, and you are tired, but theatrical image of your enthusiasm, then you risk the same thing the next time. If you do not want to end your relationship after the first sex, take the initiative and tell the man how best to treat you, or expect the next disappointment.
7. It is better to gently carry out the first connection than quickly
Lack of foreplay, fast enough sex, love fumes excitement is sharply removed. Yes, you will receive a long-awaited orgasm immediately, but note that this passionate, hot-swiftness, in the end, can lead the thought of "What was it?". You just do not remember what happened, so the first sex will not be remembered, leaving the emptiness instead of itself, in place of which the right should have been tenderness, affection, and long, inviting touch to trembling.
8. Tell the complexes "No"
From painful thoughts you do not have enough elasticity and soft tummy to get rid of. Even the owners of the perfect body will find at least three drawbacks.
I just want to remind you once again that in a state of extreme excitement, the partner likes everything that he has under his hands, his lips. And even a full belly will be a sweet place for him on the body. Do not complex and try to relax as much as possible.
9. Always respect safety
No matter how hot and emotional the impulse towards sex, no matter how strong the desire to refuse the use of a condom, in general from all conventions, it is worth approaching this issue soberly, to take it as a rule. If only you and your partner did not have documents about the absence of diseases that are transmitted by the sexual way, then the use of contraceptives is mandatory. After all, months of treatment with a passion, as well as virtuosic sex are not worth it.
10. The following rule is no rule
Do not pay attention that there are tips, which are best to listen to your behavior on the first night with a partner. After all, it's better to stay natural forever, not to try to pretend. After all, sincerity will only add confidence to you and pleasure. Also, if a new man is not a candidate for a long-term relationship, then you have a field of opportunity to improve, train, so that in the future everything was at the highest level.