Ten Rules for Success
1. Bet on optimists
Sometimes optimists seem to us crazy (and how can you call people who still hope for the best without any reason), they always win. Optimism attracts good events. And even if these events do not occur, the optimists will not be upset for too long. No matter what your views on life, communicate more with the optimists. They can make your life brighter, you will see many pluses around and do not ever lose heart. On the other hand, whiners form a negative outlook on things, spoil the mood and draw energy out of you. In our unstable world, this you absolutely do not need.
2. Choose smart girlfriends
With such an interesting talk, they can give useful and business advice. With stupid girlfriends you will feel your superiority, but stupidity one way or another with time will be annoying. Yes, and help such people can not, as it does not teach, do not say, because "their brains they will not insert."
3. Inspire with purposeful
You can, of course, choose your friends who are floating along the course of life, only they can never charge you with a desire to set a goal and achieve it, they can never enjoy realized dreams. Those people who want to achieve many things in life are inspired. And if you are lucky and you communicate with such friends, you will understand me. After talking with them, you want to turn mountains - to make your life interesting and rich, forget about grievances and failures. Be friends with those who have many plans and ideas - even if they sometimes seem unbelievable.
4. Trust in practical friends
Worse, if the girlfriend-spender, who drags you through shopping centers, neglects the family budget. With such a person, you yourself will not notice how you get involved in this shopping process, how you will sacrifice your goal for the sake of some purchases. A practical girlfriend will not tempt you to visit the sale and will be able to stop in time when you are ready to break off the coils.
5. Adhere to the adherents of a healthy lifestyle
Scientists have proved that friendship affects the weight of a person and the lifestyle of a person. You will agree that it is important where you meet with friends - for tea with cakes or in a fitness club. All this can have an impact on your figure, lifestyle and so on. Therefore, be friends with such sports girls. They will drag you to aqua aerobics, even if you do not really want.
6. Look for those who know how to keep a secret
How many families broke because a friend could not keep a secret! How many people lost their jobs because of a chatty colleague who was scratching her tongue at different departments. Try not to contact such girlfriends, otherwise you will have to constantly control yourself and know what you can say and what not. But this will not save you from trouble, because any words can be distorted, passed on and misinterpreted. Why do you need such a friend that you can not pour out your soul and relax for a minute?
7. Choose fun
A sense of humor is an important quality of a person. Do not make such friends who do not have a sense of humor, because they are not interesting. In addition, they because of an innocent joke can for a long time this resentment for you to harbor and on one "fine" day can deal with you.
8. Good always defeats evil
You do not need such friends who do not speak well of their acquaintances, sharpen their teeth against colleagues, conceal grievances against relatives. Listening is just unpleasant. It's more unpleasant to think that they can talk about you. Why save anger for all people? After all, the view of these people on everything that happens can affect you. After all, anger and skepticism are contagious things, even if you do not want to believe in it.
9. Avoid gossips
Most women tend to wash their bones. But some people just do that they disassemble the details of the lives of your acquaintances. Similarly, they will discuss your personal life with a large number of people. But why do you need all this? Why hammer your head with other people's problems and twists of fate, collect heaps of unnecessary information. It is better to find yourself a useful and pleasant business than to discuss your girlfriend's sister-in-law, an official from a neighboring entrance. It is much more interesting to read a love story, there is, besides the plot, a unique author's style, artistic images.
10. Not by bread alone
It is much more interesting to communicate with friends who are interested not only in the compliment of the head of the neighboring department and the new skirt. People who have, besides the material side of life, also another, philosophical, spiritual side of life, such people are interesting for communication. They see deeper and wider than most people and can teach you. Even if you disagree with something, do not rush to argue with them. Show interest and patience and you will discover the secret facets of their spiritual life. And in time, maybe yours.
Choose friends, following these ten rules of success, and if you follow these tips, then you will have true and interesting friends.