Of course, if you believe the endless series, which are constantly broadcast on our TV channels, all men necessarily believe in such a legend. But these are just serials, and, far from being of high quality.
And what do we really have? After all, to deceive him by saying that you are pregnant with him - it is easy, but will this lie lead to the consequences that you expect?
Firstly, if a man does not want to stay with you, he is no longer inclined to have common children. Perhaps he just is not ready for this, but maybe he just does not want to create a family with this woman. That is why the news of pregnancy will soon make him quickly collect his bags and disappear in an unknown direction, rather than repent and swear in eternal love.
Well, if you admit the option that he still believed and remained? In this case, a person will try to check. Of course, you can get a fake reference, but the guys are often not so stupid as to blindly believe the piece of paper. Most likely, he will go with you to the doctor, and, possibly, lead to his familiar specialist, and then the truth will certainly open. And your insults and words "how can you check me?" Will not work, because he does not care. If he leaves you, then he no longer loves. And to offend an indifferent person is much easier and easier, while conscience is unlikely to torment him.
But even if we admit the option that he still believed, who would guarantee that he would stay? A man can simply promise assistance and alimony, but not the hand and heart that the woman naively hopes. Judge for yourself how many guys disappear when they learn that the girl is really pregnant. So where did you get that your not like that. Of course, women tend to idealize their chosen ones, but sometimes, though, it's worthwhile to face the truth. If a man does not need a woman, then the child, most likely, he is also not needed. He can, for example, just give money for abortion. And in that case, you, except that you will receive such a small financial compensation, and not what you expect, starting this scam.
But still, let's say that your man is a romantic and naive idealist who believes in universal truth and good. Therefore, without any checks and suspicions, he takes your words on faith and remains close. What will you do next? Strongly trying to get pregnant, just to confirm your words? Are you yourself ready to raise this baby, take on the responsibility, give up freedom? Most often, women who make such decisions do not think at all what will happen next. And then a family is built, in which there is hatred and irritation and a child grows up, a completely unnecessary mother. As a result of this, warped fates, inadequate behavior and anger towards the whole world become. Are you ready to take responsibility for the fact that your son or daughter will be deeply unhappy? Of course, all people sometimes act immorally, but there must be a limit to everything.
If the woman does not plan to give birth, then, of course, she tells the story of the miscarriage, in such a way hoping to kill two birds with one stone: hide lies and tie a man. According to the scenario of such ladies, the guy will remain beside her, to be pitied and comforted. But this is fundamentally wrong. It happens only in soap operas. And in real life, most likely, the guy will simply breathe a sigh of relief, turn around and leave. And then what to do, what other legend to invent?
Deceive the guy and say that he is pregnant, in the hope of his return - it's naive and completely illogical. It is better to keep silent about the moral side of such actions. It is foolish to think that in a family built on a lie, someone will be happy. Even if the guy after all this remains with you, it is foolish to hope that he can again fall in love. If love is gone, then it can not be restored, at least not in this way. In fact, this is violence against a person. Above his needs and desires. But none of us likes to be forced to do something. That's why, for a man, life with you will be slavery, which he hates and just does not know how to get rid of. Usually, such marriages end in divorces and constant betrayals on the part of the husband. A wife, in time, just begins to hate him, knowing that even though he is physically close, but mentally he is somewhere very far away.
So think about whether it is worth trying for yourself such an ephemeral happiness? Do you need someone who can never say "I love" sincerely? Are you ready to survive with the thought that you have deceived a loved one and are simply paying for it?
Love can not be returned by force. Therefore, it is better not to drop to such low-grade ideas and just let go of the person. Of course, it will be painful and insulting, but these sufferings will not be compared with what you are condemning yourself to by choosing a lie. To deceive a guy is to instantly doom the relationship to failure, to complete failure. To fasten something serious can not be done, because a lie always comes up, leaving you with an unpleasant feeling, as if you are naked standing in the middle of a crowded street.
There are things that can not be changed and feelings that are unrealistic to revive. Not a single man really got attached to a child. Even real, not to mention invented. Even if the father of seven kids wants to leave the family, he will do it, and his beloved daughters and sonny will not interfere with him. Of course, everyone has the right to choose their own way to achieve the goal, but sometimes, it is necessary to recognize that the plan is simply naive and meaningless, and in time to abandon it. After all, any lie draws for itself one more, and then one more and more. And when the truth becomes too much, it necessarily opens. That's why, think a hundred times before deciding on such a step.