Date on the nature
Sexologists with knowledge declare that stereotypes in bed - not the worst decision. And if it's sex with a loved one - it can mean that you have found your optimal solutions, time for numerous experiments and "lapping" is far behind and you have finally chosen something that suits both of you. Proven posture allows the process to pass with guaranteed success, but at the same time you begin to realize that this is what kills all the charm of love comforts? It's time to return to experiments!
The first thing you can experiment with is to change the place for having sex, for which any object of interior can be chosen. And if it happens in the summer - you can do more radically, having gone to this for nature. Imagine how unusual it will be to have sex with your beloved husband, for example, on the lawn. In addition, this will be the reason for a significant mutual views, when the next time on this lawn you are going to a picnic with friends or children.
"We write off"
A simple enough way to diversify sex with a loved one is to change the posture, which in abundance you can find in any bookstore. Especially, if in your arsenal before that there were only "grandfather's" ways. Of course, do not get involved in performing complex figures, especially if acrobatic exercises are not your hobby. But patience and a little humor - and your relationship will acquire a new shade.
Spicy things
It's not so difficult to take advantage of a simple game, not tricky technical devices. You can buy special accessories for this, and you can even play around with toys from the sex shop. Suggest that your loved one remember his sexual fantasies, and then let him take part in yours. It is important to fully trust the partner, and, of course, know the measure in everything. But in fact you live with such person?
By the way, to discover new sensations will help a bandage on the eyes, caresses with the help of something soft and fluffy. Even the toys will do. Believe me, acute touch will bring tremendous feelings of intimacy with a partner, and, perhaps, you will find new erogenous zones.
The triumph of the spirit ...
There is no desire and possibility seriously to study tantric studies of love? Try to do it at home with the help of all the same books. New types of massage, joint breathing, the simplest techniques of meditation are able to excite no less actively than viewing a frank erotic show.
... and the body
Do not forget about the simple joys of life - it is tasty and beautiful to eat. Arrange a real erotic dinner with all the attributes attributed to this business - fruits, champagne, mousses, syrups and, of course, whipped cream! Stay savage - such a dinner is worthy to start it already naked, and the dishes will get an exotic taste if partners will feed each other from their hands or even lick off the most unexpected parts of the body. And sex with a loved one will also gain a sweet taste. Agree, after this you can take a shower together.
Perhaps your experimental proposals will not cause enthusiasm for your beloved husband, and you should not rush to reproach him for this in indifference or conservatism. Surely, he has a reason for this. In sex, of course, you can do anything, but on one condition: both partners want this. Otherwise, attempts to experiment will bring not the desired variety with sex with a loved one, but conflicts and problems in a relationship.