The most important thing is your self-esteem. Once and for all you have to remember that you are a woman of the highest class, not everyone can have you. Every man should deserve to own you. Very often at the very beginning of a relationship, women make the mistake of agreeing with their beloved in everything. This can not be done. If you have been dating for a long time, do not cross it, let alone buy a joint apartment, until he makes a proposal. A man should always have an incentive for further development of relations.
Do not seek marriage if you do not recognize it properly. White dress, restaurant and limousine - this, of course, is good, but you need to know the man of your dreams. The longer you meet, the more surprises can bring you life. Relationships are difficult to build, however, it is even more difficult to part because of minor disagreements with the one who became a native. Pay attention to all sorts of little things in the actions of men. Do not listen to what he says. As practice shows, if a man says that he does not like children, it does not mean anything. As soon as your child appears, even the most severe men are affectionate. Therefore, all his talk about the fact that he marries only after 30, that he does not like children, that he prefers blondes is almost always maximalism, which will eventually pass.
Men do not hesitate to talk about what his wife will be like. You just listen to them! "My wife will mnogotovit every day," "I will not allow her to wear short skirts" - this is despite the fact that you have told him many times that you wear a mini and do not like to cook. How do you think it means that he will not marry you? No. This means that he does not hesitate to talk about his ideal, even if you do not fit him a bit.
Do not hesitate to evaluate it as well. Tell me that your ideal should be able to work around the house, earn a lot and not drink beer. Let pomuchaetsya and ponder, and whether everything is in order in your relationship. If you have a principle or an extremely important criterion, then be sure to tell us about it. Men change very reluctantly, so you have another chance to find a new love.
It is not necessary to meet with a guy of cruelty or for mercenary motives. In the first case, sooner or later you will not respect him, and then stop loving at all. In the second, remember, promising and generous - it's much better than just a secured man. It's rare who becomes a director at 25, so do not demand everything at once. The most important thing is that he wants to achieve something in this life himself.
Of course, you are worth a lot. However, does your boy know about this? Think what he sees? Do you watch the series every day and prepare food? Throw it out immediately. I was sure that you know how to cook and okay. Urgently come up with a hobby that will become very important. They have fishing and football, hunting and cars. Remember, with what voice it says that "this is holy." Let and you also have, for example, "fitness three times a week - it's holy." At least, he will be surprised that during your quarrel with him, you still find time for a sportsman, and do not sob in a pillow.
Most often, while a woman is looking for an attraction for herself, she admits the main mistake. She only pretends that she wants to do something, but in fact she wants to hug her boyfriend and keep tabs all day. Naturally, at a convenient opportunity, a woman throws her occupation. So do not be surprised that sooner or later he will start laughing at how to wipe the week like at the gym and throw out the subscription. You have to find a business life, let it be a job or volunteer, if you are happy with it.
After you have confirmed your worth, you are self respecting, stop even insisting on marriage. That's why men get caught. Make an offer to a woman who can quite live without him - this is their dream. Men like women who are uncritical, self-confident and self-sufficient. Just do not fall into another rim and do not become a man in a skirt. Continue to be sweet and affectionate, fragile and gentle, so that it remains stronger in your pair.
Yes, many women today affirm that getting married is not the goal, that career is the main thing. However, after a couple of years, we see all these women happy moms in an eternal decree and care for the house. The most insulting thing is the fact that those who did not intend to marry themselves achieved it. But the quiet girls who think about the big family, sit alone very very long.
If you are a confident woman with a good salary, then perhaps you do not want all this. However, as soon as true love is found, there is an absolutely natural desire to be always and vezderyadom. And without the official offer of uyvas will simply be the status of "cohabitant."
The worst thing is when a girl declares that she wants a child, but does not want to get married. Do not ever tell anyone that. First, if you love children so selflessly, why do not you dream of having a father? Secondly, if your man hears it, he will look at you differently. You can not not respect yourself so that a man gives you the slightest opportunity to get pregnant, but did not make an offer. Drive it immediately, as soon as the test for pregnancy gave a positive result, and he said, we'll wait until "so." There are only two options, he will leave and not come back, he will leave and return with the ring. You do not need other options, you respect yourself.
The final outcome of any talk is action. Your main goal is to become happy, because this is what all people in the world are trying to achieve. Seeking a man who will pierce you, for him you will become a dear and reliable companion to your beloved woman. Only in this way you can live the life you dream about.