Harmonious relations between man and woman

Each pair builds their own communication style, unlike the others. To find out all the pros and cons of yours, try to look from the side: in what kind of sport are you with the boyfriend champions? And how to make a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman?
Synchronized swimming.

Terms of play: No, no, not a word about ridiculous clothes pegs for the nose and rubber caps for the head. Love in the style of synchronized swimming is pure ownership. If you want your loved one around the clock to be with you, if you spend a lot of money on SMS and seriously take offense, if he does the same, then synchronous love swimming is your element. You can make a harmonious relationship.

Red card: You know, under water, there's usually nothing to breathe if you're not a mermaid. From your attempts to get close to the guy, it may seem that you are suffocating him. And in the relationship between a man and a woman should be at least relative freedom. He gets irritated on level ground and tries to step back? Do not be offended, do not arrange interrogations and do not look for "terrible secrets" - it's just time for him and you to inhale.

Exit the game: To be together, you need freedom and harmonious relations. This is not a paradox and does not mean change or something like that. Simply every person needs time for themselves. And the artificially injected degree of romance turns your relationship into a bond. Take a step back. You will see, he will become more interesting with you when he realizes that he is not controlled. After all, until you started dating, you always had a lot of pleasant things to do - you do not have to give them up now. If you spend the weekend apart - he's on kebabs with friends, and you're with a girlfriend, ice cream and an interesting film, this will not ruin the world. On the contrary, you just miss each other.

Boxing.

Terms of the game: you can, and do not know what the terms "hook", "jab" and "uppercut" mean, but you are using these methods from boxing in life, and in particular in relationships. Only you strike your punches, not with fists, but with caustic remarks. And for all the insults you have one answer: "I'm just kidding".

Red card: You are frustrated because of the nonsense, although I'm not sure that this is not nonsense and "he must know that I hate roses, so no, I brought them again on a date!" And sophisticated nuzzles begin. And close people are wounded deeply - simply because they know all the pain points: "weakling", if he is not a jerk, an "idiot", if he is not a gold medalist ... Are you sure that this is how you should behave with your loved one and so to build a relationship between a man and a woman?

Exit the game: The ability to conduct verbal skirmishes is not a bad thing, but you need to use it very dosed. If the guy is not thrilled with your sense of humor, think, would it be nice to receive such a line from him? Harmonious relations are very important. Spend anger on the punching bag, the forces - on training, and with the beloved learn to speak. Without allegory.

Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site