Man and woman are inseparable. How many women there are, there are so many men, and vice versa ... I remembered an old good anecdote: "Every woman should have five men: the first man is a friend to whom everything is told, but do not show anything; the second man is a lover who is shown everything, but does not tell anything; The third man is a husband who is shown a little and told a little; the fourth man is a gynecologist, to whom everything is shown and everything is told; the fifth man is the boss, who, as he said, will. " And since every joke has a share of a joke, the rest is true, let's talk about men, more precisely about men in a woman's life in more detail.
How many men should be?
So, how many of these men should be in a woman's life, if seriously? Well, let's say, this concept is individual. One - this is the only one and unique for the rest of his life, for the other - this eternal quest for the prince is not a white horse, for the third one is the one who conquered, but came far from being the first in her life. Who is lucky, or, more accurately, who has any requirements for "candidacy" for the post of "his own man."
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This I tell you seriously about the frivolous, more precisely about the five men in the life of a woman.
Friend
Is there a friendship between a man and a woman? Even if you will be shown that such a friendship exists, then it has its pitfalls. Often such a friendship is based on platonic love, close and inaccessible at the same time. People are friends, because they are well with each other, there is something to talk about. Often, there is not enough courage or boldness for a closer relationship, or the circumstances do not allow: a girl, a boyfriend, a husband or a wife.
Another situation is the desire to be with a man or a woman side by side, well, at least as a friend. Then the situation turns out: one is friends, and another suffers platonic love. In any case, the relationship between man and woman is governed by the natural basic instinct - sex, even platonic. Often people seek a friend for the soul, because they do not receive proper support in their personal lives, and spiritual treason is beginning, which, by the way, many people do not recognize or simply do not want to acknowledge, justifying their relations. So the situation turns out: a friend can tell everything and get a lot of positive emotions from him. Only there is no guarantee that these friendly relations will not grow into something more than friendship. Therefore, friendship is a relative concept. It can be compared with the scales - much more outweighs, everything will come to that.
Lover
Is there a lover for every woman? Why is this constantly being said? Probably, because family relationships often turn into a dry life, but in order to diversify it, we have to look for love, or rather, sex, on the side. It is a way to feel the former passion, romance, in the end, the way to feel again a woman - desirable, sexy, beautiful.
Only here in such relations there are their underwater reefs, especially when family relations are not very much like to be destroyed. Having learned new sensations, a woman is unlikely to be the same as she was, except if the lover is in bed worse than her husband.
"A good lover, like a drug. Try it once, you start running to it again and again, forgetting about your duties, cares and family members, "Oksana says. A woman is much more inclined to being amorous than a man. She takes relations more seriously and is more attached to them, even if these same relationships are based only on sex.
It is ideal to start a lover only in the case when there are no prohibitions in the family in matters of "personal life", however, then a completely different question arises: "Is this already a family?"
Husband
The husband is the head of the family. But only if men think that everyone knows about their wives, they are deeply mistaken in this. So the situation develops: I show a little, I tell a little. Bedding is a place where everything happens according to the standard: lay down - and sex. And to talk already, like, and there's nothing ... One pleases that this is not for everyone so, but, unfortunately, is often found.
Life and family problems turn a man into a breadwinner, a woman into a mother of the family. Romance and passion are hidden in a deep chest, and a woman often performs in bed "her conjugal duty."
Fortunately, such a typical situation is not a reason to put a cross on the relationship, but an occasion to change something. For example, you can sometimes feel your husband as a friend who will listen and understand everything, and at times - as a lover, sending children to her grandmother and having sex in a non-standard setting.
Gynecologist
ABOUT! Gynecologist - this is the right man! He will also help with advice, and "look" ... Thanks to the male gynecologist, children are born. Such a man needs to be cherished and appreciated. But not every woman will go to tell a man, even if he is a doctor, everything and everything. Nevertheless, in our time a gynecologist, if he is a good specialist, is more expensive than a gynecologist.
Chief
According to the survey, many women still prefer to see in the role of their boss is the man. It is difficult to say why, perhaps a man is more complacent about the female sex, perhaps there is a historical factor here: earlier, in fact, only the man made decisions in all matters. Most of all, they do not want to see a middle-aged woman in the role of superior, she is perceived as a harmful and unsatisfied person.
Some see the role of a male boss not only as a boss, but also as a potential or already a real lover. Such women easily advance on the career ladder, because they have all the "cards seized." Worse is the situation when the boss claims to have more than business relationships, and the woman refuses. Such men tend to take revenge. Therefore, the male boss, if present in the life of a woman, it is better that he remained just a boss and a good friend.
Note that the statement that "every woman should have five men" is suitable only for a married woman: she can have both husband and lover. On the other hand, the question arises: "Why so much?" Is it not better to have one ideal, who will be both husband and friend, an ardent lover, and even, perhaps, a gynecologist and a boss. But this should already be looked for ... "Where and how?" - you ask. I will say, however, that such men do exist, no matter how difficult it is to believe, but that's another story ...