Men were not afraid to be romantics. They did not consider this something unacceptable to a real man. They gave flowers, drove the girls to the movies, to dances. Just a walk and a casual conversation in the mall, gave them a lot of fun.
The girls felt really wanted and needed. They were not afraid to seem fragile or weak. After all, there is always a strong man nearby who can save her from any trouble.
What happened to those men who can turn mountains for the sake of their beloved woman? Why did the guys stop trying to get girls?
What is happening now? Men are so confident that they are unique and, literally, an endangered species, that they no longer consider it necessary to get girls. If he decided to come to you, and you agreed to give him the phone number, then the maximum he will do next is to call and invite to the meeting. And, it may happen that if after the first date, you do not find yourself in his bed, then interest in you will be lost.
He simply does not consider it necessary to waste his energy to achieve you. And, especially since he is sure that if not you, then the other will immediately agree to all of his conditions and he will not have to turn out on the wrong side for the sake of a woman.
What is the reason why guys have stopped trying to get girls, just do not get it right. The reason may be that before men were brought up in a different way. Guys from the very childhood knew that the girl must be sought if you want her to be with you. Previously, to seek a woman was considered an ordinary occupation, even, one might say, characteristic of any young man.
Maybe we ourselves, girls and women, are to blame for the fact that a man does not seek and does not care for a girl. Not proper upbringing, as an example. Now the values that our grandparents honored were practically forgotten. Now a man and a woman are equal in their rights.
The fault lies with us, too active in recent years have become girls. For us, no longer a problem, go to the guy you like, ask her the phone number, invite him on a date. We really are not weak, we are ready and pay lunch in the restaurant if the guy really likes with all his heart. We send him sms messages, in which we will outline all our feelings and a sea of compliments. Take in your hands a joint future. We plan and realize all our dreams and dreams.
Now you will not be surprised by such families, where the money is extracted by a woman, and the man acts as a housewife. And, most men are satisfied with this state of affairs. And it's hard not to agree with them, men now do not have to bother themselves with long courtship. Ideally, even if he creates a family, the reins of government can be shifted to the shoulders of a woman.
We let the men behave this way, so we can correct it in our power. It's just that if something does not suit you. Change to start yourself. A man behaves with a woman exactly as a woman can.
Fortunately, I can confidently say that there are still such men in our time, who by virtue of long and beautiful courtship for the girl. There are still those men who are ready to become a defense and a support for their beloved.
Girls, if you do not want to one day grab your head with thoughts: "why did the guys stop trying to get girls?". At the very beginning of the relationship, do not take too much to later do not have to cry and suffer. Always remember that you are a fragile girl who deserves love, attention and care. And, even more so, deserves a man of her dreams to achieve it.