Lack of number 1. Evasion of problems
Very often, women express fair reproaches toward men, when they do not want to solve some minor problems, for example, which are of a domestic nature. This is especially noticeable when a man goes all in his thoughts and, as it were, frees himself. Then it seems to the women that the man is shifting the problem onto their fragile shoulders, especially leaving him. And from the psychological point of view - it's not entirely true. Just men need more time to solve the problem. They must think everything over, carefully weigh, without emotion. For this they need peace and quiet. Men can not think and give out solutions simultaneously, so their mind is composed.
Women are very difficult to understand men in this situation, because they tend to think about everything, they have a lot of decisions in their heads. When the woman carefully thinks everything over, speaks and puts it on the shelves, then the right decision will come to her without delay.
And for men, everything happens in a completely different way. The solution of the problem comes to them from the inside, they do not need to sound and pronounce the problem as women. And only man's need to be given the opportunity to think, not to rush things, and then your problem will be solved successfully and correctly.
Lack of number 2. Failure to keep promises
Every man wants to feel better for his half, ready to turn mountains for her, break into a cake, but make it so that she was pleasantly surprised. He can promise something to his beloved, and she, in turn, will want to immediately receive it. And if suddenly a woman does not get what she was promised, after some time she can just go into indignation, get angry or upset, the reaction directly depends on the character of the woman. A woman will blame a man for being slow-witted, inconclusive or unable to help her at all.
In turn, the most intimidating thing that can be for a man is the recognition of his weakness, inability to help his beloved woman, he can at all feel useless. When he wanted, on the contrary, to become for her a wizard, fulfilling desires, her benefactor. This situation gives rise to a little childish desire for men to always be on top. Hasty agreement: "Yes, of course," "I'll do everything" - this is exactly what a woman wants to hear from him at this moment, and he, so that he can agree at once on everything. This does not mean at all that the man's promised will not fulfill, it just takes him time.
By the way, only a very brave man can admit that something is beyond his power or that he needs a certain amount of time to fulfill the promise. Others will break up a tucker to fulfill the promised, and when it does not work out, they themselves will be upset, and their self-esteem may fall. A man by nature wants to be a favorite superman. So do not put impossible tasks in front of your loved ones, putting it at a dead end, making a liar out of it, do not ask constantly "well, when" - then you will get what you want and the man will not "fall into the dirt" face of the front of the heart.
Lack of number 3. False
Sometimes it's easier to lie to a woman than to tell the truth. Many men have more than once faced the unpredictable reactions of women to truthful answers. But such is the strange nature of the nature - they sometimes ask such tricky questions as if already in the head of the spinning response of a man. And to answer a man better than a woman thought of in her head, because she would not accept other answers. The answer that she has thought up herself will be more comfortable and acceptable for her.
In order to avoid the unpredictable reaction of women, men also learned to lie. And, with joy and skill it is practiced. All people are ready to calmly accept the lie, which makes them happy and joyful. In particular, this, of course, concerns representatives of the weaker sex, who, as we know, love ears. And since you can "hang noodles" on trustful female ears ...
Sometimes we think that men do not understand the fragilities of women's psychology ever. But this is far from true. Some very skillfully use, for example, flattery. And who of the women does not like flattery from a loved one? Remember Dostoevsky and his hero Svidrigailov, who ruined and seduced far more than one woman.
Lack of number 4. Slovenliness
An important factor for women. The inability of men to monitor themselves and their homes, ignoring the details of the interior, toilet and comfort most upset women. Negligence of men is most often caused by family conflicts. Just let's remember the scattered socks throughout the apartment, sebaceous hair, unshaven face, bad breath, from the legs and the like. For men - it seems a trifle, but all this can forever discourage women from sexual attraction to such a partner in life.
What are the causes of muzhnennoeoprjatnosti? Very many believe that this goes back to childhood - from mothers and grandmothers. Which taught the man that they always do everything for him: they rub, collect toys, wash socks, pants, then gently folding them in a chest of drawers. A man, accustomed to such care and care, goes into adulthood with the experience gained and the certainty that he will be cared for. A woman gets the result of these actions Mami grandmothers - a big child, for which you need to clean everything, clean, wash, carefully fold as a small. But it's not only that.
A man just can not pay attention to such trifles as bristles, sparse socks and more. Because other thoughts revolve in his head, for example, about work, on-project, some kind of discovery, about the same policy or something else about something. Therefore, they just have no time to get distracted by such trifles. Women should also consider this.
Lack of number 5. Disinclination in emotional questions
The female psyche is very flexible and can be adjusted to any situation. In men, on the contrary, the inner world is too far-flung and their harsh decisions do not at all mean rigidity in the character. Sometimes the feelings of men lie much deeper and are experienced more dramatically. This can be unnoticeable from the outside, for example, when a man goes all or hide behind harsh, inadequate reactions.
Lack of number 6. Taciturnity
The need for communication between men is much less than that of women. Because of this, sometimes women think that a loved one does not want to talk with them. But this is not so. From the point of view of psychology, men of women listen attentively only 10-15 seconds. They do not like the details, the result of the conversation is important to them, not the process. A man is more inclined to think and give a ready answer, rather than understand everything, talking and discussing it.
Lack of number 7. Coarseness
This male deficiency is able to destroy even the most tender relationship. Men think that polite ilaskovoe communication is a sign of their weakness. On the contrary, polite and attentive women in the eyes of a woman become able to protect and fight for her, make her happy. And this means that he is strong, because they are unwilling. With such men you need to communicate kindly, and do not respond rudely to rudeness and then sooner or later he will understand that rudeness prevents him from becoming happy.
Lack of number 8. Self-centeredness and selfishness
Egoism - a conscious and emerging from the negative features of nature phenomenon. A man-egoist knows what you need, is aware of other people's interests and positions. However, he ignores them in his favor. It is better not to have anything in common with such men.
The egocentric considers himself to be the highest opinion of all. In other words, there is his opinion and his opinion, the third is not given. Such a man may well become a tyrant, whiner, jealous, even an unrecognized genius, unless he learns to look at the world from different sides. Usually this phenomenon takes place by 12 years, but sometimes accompanies a man all his life.
It is possible to say endlessly that we are not satisfied with men, about shortcomings. But remember that a woman should not look for flaws in the beloved and at every opportunity poke him with nasos in them. A take a man for who he is or try to make it better.