Outside the summer, the sun is warm, the air smells of greenery and love. So I want to meet someone! Only now the strong sex of some kind of cue and dumb went: the initiative does not want to show. But do not sit there forever in the girls? We suggest you take the first step yourself - if the woman manages to stop the horse in a race and enter the hut burning, then acquaintance with a man - in general it's a trifling matter! About where you can get to know a man for a serious relationship and will be discussed below.
• Do not be afraid of dating on the street! For some reason in our country it is considered a terrible thing to tell a stranger on the street, what is your name. And as to accepting his invitation to visit, in general, there can be no talk. And completely in vain! On the streets fit to meet not only bandits, but also quite decent men. And, perhaps, one of them - your destiny (just for the sake of precaution, it is not necessary to go to him on the first evening or to ask to spend late at night).
And you can not wait until he comes to you, and take the initiative in their own hands. For example, ask a stranger you like, how to "go there and then find something". And when everyone tells you, smile charmingly and say that for the first time you hear such a simple, accessible and detailed explanation. Screw any subtle compliment - it works without fail on all men without exception! And there, you see, he himself will offer you a lift to the right place or ask for a telephone.
• The right way to get acquainted is to go to the places of the greatest concentration of men. The queues for alcohol in the night shop do not count. This is perhaps the worst place where you can meet - a man for a serious relationship is better to look otherwise. For example, in automobile markets, in shops of hunters and fishermen and so on. In such places, you generally do not have to puzzle over what topic to choose for a conversation - it is already obvious: just ask for advice about buying a car, fishing rods, guns and other things. What kind of man will refuse a lady in the council and not take advantage of the opportunity to demonstrate his competence once again! You are instructed in detail on all issues, and your task is only to listen carefully and to assent, in no case interrupting the "guru". After all, Carnegie said that nothing so does not have people to us, like the ability to listen to the interlocutor.
Or you can do the following: practice some kind of "masculine" sport, for example, kayaking. Or just periodically take care of the "rocking chair." You do not need to become a master of sports - you can afford to be a weak woman, who does not succeed. We assure you: very many men will want to take patronage over you. And one of them to choose - decide for yourself.
Or this option: become a sports fan for a while - go to sports events, go to stadiums. That's really where it is easy to get acquainted with a man!
• If you are autoladie, do not give up male help! A confused woman (especially if she is not bad-looking and dressed in style), trying unsuccessfully to get her car on a deserted road or change a wheel, causes the majority of the representatives of the opposite sex to sympathize and desire to help (however, especially to puncture the bus every day or drive a defective car Do not need - this is an extreme). Or ask a friend of a bachelor-car owner to help you adjust the alarm system, which "screams" for days on end, or come up with something else in the same spirit. The main thing is that it should not be too burdensome: the potential gentleman must with brilliance solve the task set by you (and thereby be established not only in your own, but also in your eyes), and not blush and mumble that he can not fix the problem.
• Get a dog and walk it in the company of other "dogs". To get acquainted with the "soil of dogs" is the easiest thing. Luck, you can say, goes to your hands. Your business is not to miss it. Find out at what time a dog likes the subject you like, and try to make sure that your walks coincide. Walk with the dog wherever you can - you will definitely meet a "colleague". And let first all your conversations will concern only animals, in due course you will become inseparable friends, and there and up to love nearby. And, by the way, watch his dog - she will tell you a lot about the nature of the owner. If the dog is friendly, most likely, and the owner is the same. If you are suspicious and aggressive, look for another "dogman" better (the probability that the dog copied the character of the owner is quite high).
• Use friends, acquaintances and relatives to find out if they have a decent candidate for your hand. There is nothing humiliating about this: thousands of people get acquainted with. someone's assistance. Ask your friend that she "accidentally" invited you both to her, and then try to do everything to please your companion. If friends can not help you - all the unmarried have already snapped up - contact a marriage agency. There they will propose a list of applicants. And do not be skeptical about this proposal - very many people have met their half in this way. Try to use all methods - then the chances of success will increase many times!
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In order for your searches to be successful and not to be scattered over trifles, decide how you want to see your chosen one. If intelligent, gentle and intelligent, do not demand from him aggressiveness and ability to turn million transactions. If assertive and successful in business, leave him alone with requests to hammer a nail into the wall and fix a malfunctioning iron. If you want him to be a quiet, quiet family man, do not expect that he will be pleased, going with you to the fashionable get-together, or that he will show the wonders of acrobatics in bed. Well, if you dream of the burning handsome, from which all women faint, do not expect from him fidelity to the grave. In a word, decide on your desires, and then start acting in the right direction.
And further. Never brag to a man that it was you who "lied" him. Even if the initiative originally came from you, let him think that further your relationship developed solely because of his abilities. Sweat the man's pride! After all, despite the fact that a strong gender and like a certain female activity, most men are convinced that in the end, the choice should remain just behind them. So let them remain in a happy ignorance!