What will happen to a man if you suddenly decide to get rid of the image of a "naive cutie"?
He will be surprised.
Men in general are not easy to surprise. But it is unlikely that he will be able to hide his surprise if you suddenly say: "I do not understand why Lyudka is so happy that her husband gives her roses? It would be better to buy food in the house! "After such unpredictable and masculine rational reasoning, the man immediately pricked up: where did the naive female envy and hints that he, the faithful, had not spoiled you with expensive gifts for a long time?
He will be frightened.
If a woman starts to suddenly look at the world through his "glasses" with enlarged glasses - any man will be scared in earnest! Why instead of gullible dog eyes, she looks as if next to her foreign partner, which requires an individual approach?
Men do not want to talk and live next to their own reflection. It is not at all interesting for him to hear his own thoughts from women's lips. He wants and expects that his wife will interpret them in her own naive, predictable, illogical way. Remember: women's naivete is of great benefit to the psychological health of a man. Why do men like slightly naive women?
Next to the naive, he is the leader.
A woman will be genuinely upset if she can not find shoes of the appropriate size in a shoe store. A woman becomes vexed if her desires and requests can not be realized momentarily. That's why she hurries to share a naive disappointment with friends, neighbors or an employee. Only during a sincere conversation, her bitterness and resentment instantly disappear.
What does a man feel if he can not find a suitable size boot in the shoe department? He does not experience any specific emotions: resentment, annoyance, anger or anger. Leaving the store, he usually thinks to himself: "I just wasted my time".
Thanks to the reasoning of naive women, a man gets the opportunity to feel his superiority as a leader. After all, while his woman dreams about something unrealizable, he has to build strategic plans and perform many applied tasks.
Next to the naive, he is the initiator.
Often, "naive" female thoughts are embodied successfully in life by men. "Darling, why do not we buy a house in the country? "- offers a spouse. "Well, why? We also have a great apartment in the center of the city! "The husband begins to resent. However, later, having weighed all the pros and cons, he himself wants to make his wife happy.
Often our most illusory proposals do not pass by the male ears. They slowly ponder naive female wishes, which are often pronounced spontaneously, without a definite purpose. And only finally "digesting" the information, men are ready to read their verdict.
Women are not so important that the original initiative to buy a country house came from it. The main thing is that her proposals become reality! And let the man consider himself a generator of the best ideas, a woman should not forget to praise him at least for being embodied in the reality of her dreams. Myself for the fact that in time gave my beloved such an excellent idea.
His naivety relaxes.
Women's naivete for men - a kind of psychotechnics. As soon as a woman speaks out loud thoughts that come to her mind, even if it's real nonsense, at this time a signal comes to the man's brain: "You can relax, the danger does not threaten you. You do not need to answer, decide or excuse yourself. Just listen and enjoy. She is naive and funny, but often speaks so heartfelt - just ridiculous. But she's your favorite woman. "
Accustomed to constant female antics, a man begins to eventually understand that there is nothing wrong with seeing the world through rose-colored glasses. More often tell your loved one about dreams - men love to relax under these stories. They will naively begin to believe that everything will come true, and then they will make maximum efforts to make you happy.
TEST: Are you naive?
Put 1 just next to the questions that you answered in the affirmative. If you answer negatively, put the question beside the question 0.
1. Does a man often call you diminutively "caress", "kotya", etc.?
2. Do you always feel insulted when a man starts to make fun of you?
3. Will you believe a friend if she says that her man is perfect?
4. Will you say that a man has stopped loving, if he has not told you about his love for more than a week?
5. Do you suspect a loved one of treason, if he has recently lingered for a long time at work?
6. Do you like reading romance novels that suddenly end with a happy ending?
7. Do you think that you are impressionable?
8. Do you believe in the statement "jealous - it means, loves"?
9. Do you call your man to ask how long he will stay at work?
10. Are you interested in a man with whom he met during the working day?
11. Does your man always tell you the truth only?
12. Does it make you feel guilty if you did not accidentally fulfill a man's request?
13. Do you often share your most intimate desires with your man?
14. Do you believe that in time all dreams come true?
15. Do romance stories about love touch you?
16. Do you feel yourself next to your beloved man defenseless little girl?
17. Do you often say the phrase "I am suddenly confused" or "I so wanted this, but. . "?"
18. Do you believe that your man will sacrifice his own interests for the sake of your desire?
19. Can you genuinely rejoice in trifles?
20. Do minor failures often spoil your mood for the whole day?
Calculate how many affirmative answers you got and summarize the number of balls.
1 - 5 points.
Naivety has remained in your childhood. Men can only perceive you as an equal partner. They do not see you as a weak woman, so they are careful not to enter into a relationship with you.
6 - 14 points.
You are sometimes naive and impressionable. In the shower, you are the same little girl who, with genuine naivety, believes in perfect love. The man next to you feels loved.
15 - 20 points.
Your naivety is akin to childish immediacy. You simply forget that a man is not a character from a love story. Such naivete is fraught with sad consequences.