The man ideally parkes the car and easily finds the desired point in the city even without a map, even if he goes there for the first time. And in the refrigerator he does not see a pack of oil, nor can he find the right piece of clothing in the closet. A woman can talk emotionally about her problems, and when a man asks not to worry about trifles or offers help, he rolls a hysterical saying: "You never listen to me!". How to understand each other's two loving hearts, to make coexistence the most comfortable? Let's try to understand.
Wealth or oratory
What do you think, what men are most often forced to pay for love in relation to a woman? In the literal and figurative sense, a man is forced to pay materially for interest in his person, if he does not know how to speak. Yes, the rich women often wait for rich gifts and luxurious travels from men who can not connect two words. And romantics, poets and musicians, who can charm a woman with the beauty of her speech, therefore can afford to live in poverty, that a woman is satisfied with their sweet speeches and charming stories.
A woman loves ears, and a man should be eloquent. If he wants to be loved and in poverty, or if he wants to get rid of "karma" to attract mercantile individuals, he will be very useful courses of oratory. Quite often, psychotherapists persistently recommend their male clients, who are deprived of unselfish love, to go to speech improvement courses. So the ideal man - not necessarily rich. That is why workaholics and careerists, in pursuit of a long ruble forgetting about feelings, often remain at the broken trough. And they are very surprised why this wife went to another, less well-off man.
Love or sex
No wonder humorists joke that a woman pays for sex for love, and a man has to portray love for a woman in order to achieve sex. So it is: many men have an ideal feeling associated with sexual compatibility. And women are ready to make many concessions for the sake of men's satisfaction, because they feel intuitively that this is their way to love. In principle, the male and female strategy of finding ideal relationships complement each other, and in theory should lead to happiness.
It turns out that the ideal man should give the woman a feeling that he is in love with her, and then he will have a chance to achieve almost perfect sex.
Family or friends
Women often dream of having a man who will take part in all aspects of their lives. They dream of a husband who will spend hours discussing the behavior of girlfriends or celebrities. And who will happily go shopping with them.
If you are thinking about what a man should do to a woman in order to approach her ideal, do not be tempted to become the best girlfriend for your wife. Unfortunately, for the family and relationships, the couple are extremely detrimental to isolate themselves. Friends, relatives and habitual hobbies should not leave your life at the moment when it includes a loved one.
Knowingly, it is estimated that shopping for men aged fifty years, often ends in a stroke, and all men are under pressure in a huge supermarket, in which his wife is about to stick out for hours. Yes, and discussing the relationship of men are also not ready. They are interested more in the world of subjects: technology, business, sport and nature. So, striving to become an ideal for a woman, a man should not cross a certain line. The ideal companion for shopping in the pre-infarction state is much worse than the mediocre one in shopping for a girlfriend. That's why in the life of the ideal man there must be friends with whom he can discuss fishing, football and car repairs. A woman who wants to find the perfect man, should be able to share some of the joys of life, not only with him, but with friends.
By and large, universal rules in the relationship of a man and a woman are not and can not be. Your man can be talkative and inappropriate and hate football and fishing. And friends can be completely indifferent to shopping. Your husband can easily earn a lot of money on the ability to speak, which he is interested in polishing and at home, arguing with you on a variety of topics. So if a woman is looking for the perfect man and the man wants to be the best for a woman, the best way is to get to know each other, study and find such communication points that everyone will make happy. And do without universal recipes of happiness, which simply does not exist in nature.