Readiness
The dispute can arise from scratch, and can be expected and even planned. If you know that at home or at work an ambiguous situation is brewing, it is better to be ready for a dispute. Think over your position, gather facts, prepare convincing arguments that will help you to defend your position honestly. It is important not just to remain at any cost right, but also to prove to the opponent that your arguments are logical.
Patience
If you are involved in a dispute, it is only natural that your opponents will have a different point of view. Do not be annoyed because of this. The chance to win a dispute is usually high among those who recognize others for the right to dissent. The whole point of the dispute is to agree and make sure of the rightness of your opponent.
Correctness
The dispute is controversial, often in the heat you can hear quite harsh statements. Please note, the more correct your behavior will be, the greater advantages you will have. In any conflict, the one who is more captivated by emotions loses. Do not let yourself go down to insults, no matter how much you want it.
Compromise
It is not always possible to accept someone else's current of view on a particular issue. But if the resolution of the situation is necessary, then it is best to be ready to compromise - often this is the only chance to get out of the dispute with minimal losses. If you are ready to sacrifice something for the common good, boldly offer alternative solutions, in the end you will not lose.
Barriers
Often we can not feel on an equal footing with the opponent, because we are hampered by many psychological motives. Any conflict situation is knocking us out of the rut, many are frankly afraid of their interlocutor. Do not tune yourself to the fact that he has supposedly great advantages over you, that he is stronger or has more opportunities. Otherwise, you will lose the argument before it starts. The technique of the dispute presupposes a calm attitude to the problem and to the opponent.
Get out
Sometimes it is useful to look at the situation from the outside. The correct technique of arguing is when you are able not to take things too seriously. Withdrawing, you will be able to see your mistakes and mistakes of the opponent, which will allow you to defend your point of view as a result.
Arguments
It is important that in the dispute every word and position of yours should be justified, otherwise the risk of transition to identity and loss is great. You should not scare or embarrass your opponent, but convince him. This means that your point of view should be logically justified by stubborn facts, and not by your own speculations. Success in the debate goes to those whose arguments are difficult to challenge.
Result
In any dispute, it makes sense. It is better if it is the achievement of some result and agreement. If you start a dispute only in order to release steam, recoup somebody, then no benefit from such actions will not be. Try to influence the course of the discussion, direct it into a constructive channel. If the argument ends with something weighty, and not just a bad mood for each of its participants, then it can be called useful if a truth was found during the dispute.
The technique of dispute is necessary for all. Even if you are far from the position of leader, this does not mean that you will never have to defend your views. But it is necessary to be able to argue, otherwise it will be a banal squabble. Be wiser than your opponents, follow all the directions, then it will be easier to win the argument.